I have a boyfriend that lives down the street from me and we snapchat a lot but he also snap chats my best friend a lot and that worries me she's kind of a slut and flirts with lots if guys plus when I first moved in up here she would tell me how weird he is and now they are super close what's going on?

With this kind of best friend, you don't need enemies... she'll cover both jobs fine. A girl should not be chatting, electronically or otherwise, with her friend's boyfriend. A friendly hello or participating in discussions when you are all together is fine, but she's trying to cultivate a separate relationship with him, which is not. At the same time, he should also have loyalty and not cultivate a relationship with another girl when he's dating you.

My 18 year old son gas been dealing with his buddy's girlfriend texting him. He handled it properly by saying, "I'm not comfortable cultivating a close friendship with my friend's girlfriend. It wouldn't be loyal of either if us."

Your best friend may be a slut as you call her, but your boyfriend is no better. You need to ask him what he's doing and ask her as well. Leave them both alone. How old are you?

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Your best friend may be a slut as you call her, but your boyfriend is no better. You need to ask him what he's doing and ask her as well. Leave them both alone. How old are you?

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Im 13 and she's 15 and my boyfriend is 14

They both have no respect and she isn't your friend sorry to say unless she get it by learning from her mom. Dump him move on and never introduce her to an of your future male boyfriends. I have to say this as well you need to concentrate on school not boys.

I think your 14 year old boyfriend is probably interested in your 15 year old as you say slutty friend. Neither of them are worth your time and you are too young to be dating anyway

Yep, too young to date which is why people are acting immature. Still, this girl us unlikely to outgrow this behavior any time soon so I'd find new friends. The guy is too immature for a relationship and that won't change any time soon either, so be done with both of them and focus on finding better friends while putting dating off until you are well into high school.

You are best friends with a slut? Don't people think you're a slut by association?

What makes a person a slut at that age? Sex with a number of people?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

You are best friends with a slut? Don't people think you're a slut by association?

What makes a person a slut at that age? Sex with a number of people?

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she just like goes out with a lot of people and flirts with every one and you I'm her friend but no one thinks I'm a slut.

So you just called your best friend a slut? How are you hanging out with a 15 year old? Do your parents know about this girl?

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So you just called your best friend a slut? How are you hanging out with a 15 year old? Do your parents know about this girl?

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yes they do

They don't mind you hanging out with a girl with kind of reputation? She must be in High School.
Are you even in High School?

I think calling the best friend a slut is an angry, knee jerk reaction. I don't think going out with a lot of people and/or flirting makes a person a slut.

Sounds to me like bitter grapes - OP likes a boy who happens to enjoy the company of her best friend.

And sluts hang out with other sluts. That's, the last I heard, how it works - unless you're a social worker, which I highly doubt.

Your boyfriend can't text a friend who he has known probably longer than you? Jealousy/Fear/Envy (or YOUTH) seems to have made this a love triangle where maybe there is NONE.

I personally don't think this girl is a slut because she flirts and goes out a lot. I do too, and I wwouldn't consider myself a slut. If this girl has any respect for you, she won't flirt with your boyfriend. They probably are just friends. I'm close friends with my best friend's boyfriend, and all she thinks of that is that it's good that we get along. I would never try anything with him, because I would never want to hurt my best friend, and this girl probably wouldn't want to hurt you either. I think there's really nothing to worry about.

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