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  • Jun 18, 2013, 05:09 AM
    AayushiB
    Unprotected sex
    My normal period ended 3rd June. I had sex with my boyfriend on 8th June and then had a pill on 9th. Unpredictably I bled on 13th June which ended on 16th. I had sex again on 18th June. Do I need to take the pill? Can I get pregnant? And will the pill affect my cycle?
  • Jun 18, 2013, 06:46 AM
    smoothy
    WHat pill? You are aware the Plan B pill isn't for birth control... you need to talk with your OB/GYN to get on a real form of birth control... but keep in mind no form of birth control is 100% effective... and having unprotected sex is actually TRYING to get pregnant.
  • Jun 18, 2013, 09:38 AM
    AayushiB
    I meant the contraceptive pill.
    Just tell me should I take it? I had sex today.
  • Jun 18, 2013, 09:39 AM
    smoothy
    Contraceptive pills are taken on a schedule... not just when you have sex... exactly WHAT type of contraceptive pill are you taking.
  • Jun 18, 2013, 09:41 AM
    Wondergirl
    You take birth control pills every day, whether you have sex. Is that the pill you are referring to?
  • Jun 18, 2013, 09:52 AM
    AayushiB
    Ipill I'm talkin' about.
  • Jun 18, 2013, 09:56 AM
    smoothy
    That ISN'T a form of contraception it is otherwise what is called Plan B pill,. its only to be used IF the contraception you use failed... and you have used NO form of recognised contraception yet from your post...

    So why aren't you using any contraception... at all if you don't want pregnant.
  • Jun 18, 2013, 09:56 AM
    AayushiB
    Another thing, why did I bleed on the 13th? Was that due to the contraceptive pill I had earlier?
  • Jun 18, 2013, 09:57 AM
    AayushiB
    Then what should I do. Please help me! :(
  • Jun 18, 2013, 09:58 AM
    smoothy
    You mean you aren't actually trying to have a baby? You were having unprotected sex over and over. People trying to have a baby do that.

    Are you or aren't you trying to have a baby?
  • Jun 18, 2013, 09:58 AM
    AayushiB
    Suggest me a contraceptive please.
  • Jun 18, 2013, 09:59 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by AayushiB View Post
    Then what should I do. Please help me! :(

    First of all, stop having sex. It doesn't sound like you know what you are doing.
  • Jun 18, 2013, 10:00 AM
    AayushiB
    Not at all I'm trying to have a baby. I'm just 18.
  • Jun 18, 2013, 10:00 AM
    AayushiB
    Okay. I won't. But now what should be my next step? I don't want to get pregnant.
  • Jun 18, 2013, 10:01 AM
    busymomma2013
    You should refrain from engaging in sexual intercourse until you are ready to have a baby to care for.

    Even birth control, condoms, plan b are not 100% effective.

    If you don't want the responsibility that comes with having children... DON'T HAVE SEX!

    Then you wouldn't have to worry about what to do.
  • Jun 18, 2013, 10:03 AM
    AayushiB
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by busymomma2013 View Post
    You should refrain from engaging in sexual intercourse until you are ready to have a baby to care for.

    Even birth control, condoms, plan b are not 100% effective.

    If you don't want the responsibility that comes with having children....DON'T HAVE SEX!

    Then you wouldn't have to worry about what to do.

    You are right. My boyfriend and I have promised not to. This was the 3rd time we had. But right now I need to be rescued. Help me! :'(
  • Jun 18, 2013, 10:05 AM
    smoothy
    You need to go to your doctor.. or Gynecologist... because there are many types and dosages of contraceptives and nobody can prescribe or recommend one online, There are no particular one that is best for every female, but certain ones are better for certain people. You can't buy most of them without a doctors prescription either..

    I also recommend you taking a class on human reproduction... because you need to know how you get pregnant.. as its clear you really don't at this point. Because you keep having unprotected sex.

    And even with the right protection.. and if you use it the way you are supposed to... you can still get pregnant...

    Continue what you have been doing and I can guarantee you WILL be pregnant... very, very, soon.
  • Jun 18, 2013, 10:08 AM
    AayushiB
    I won't. I get what you mean. Isn't there any other way than seeing a doctor?
  • Jun 18, 2013, 10:08 AM
    busymomma2013
    All you can do at this point in time is wait to see if you miss your next period.

    Wait 2 weeks after your next period, when/if you miss it, then take a HPT using your first morning urine.
  • Jun 18, 2013, 10:11 AM
    AayushiB
    You guys are acting like it's too late. I had sex today. Can't I have an iPill and be rescued?

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