Why are (young adult) guys really shy sometimes around girls?

Because they really like them and don't know the perfect approach.

When in reality there is no perfect approach, just be yourself and go talk to tha girl.

They might simply be shy because they're shy... it's just the way they are.

But, when a guy is shy around one specific girl, well, then it's probably because he really likes her, he might be intimidated, he's more conscious...

This is what I think anyway.

I'm glad someone ask this question because I was thinking the same thing

I am shy around some girls. Assertive around other girls. It really depends on the situation. It seems to me that I'm more shy around girls that are exceedingly attractive.
Plus, I do not enjoy failure so shyness might be a blessing sometimes.

Maybe this will help, I'm a quiet shy guy, I hardly ever speak around anyone I don't know, girls in particular, that's only because I don't want to say the wrong thing, or embarrass myself by stumbbling over my words. I don't speak much,so sometimes when I talk to get a point across I may trip over what I'm trying to say, so when I stutter, it really hits me hard, makes me feel like an idiot. But the only reason I stutter is because I'm shy.

And if it's a very attractive girl, you can forget about it. I probably won't even speak at all. Lol maybe a hi, and bye, but nothing else. Lol

Thanks for the tips shy guys

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Originally Posted by alizeblu

maybe this will help, im a quiet shy guy, i hardly ever speak around anyone i dont know, girls in particular, thats only because i dont want to say the wrong thing, or embarass myself by stumbbling over my words. I dont speak much,so sometimes when i talk to get a point across i may trip over what im trying to say, so when i stutter, it really hits me hard, makes me feel like an idiot. but the only reason i stutter is because im shy.

and if its a very attractive girl, you can forget about it. i probably wont even speak at all. lol maybe a hi, and bye, but nothing else. lol

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Does a woman has to ask you out just to get your attention?

Lol well its like this: in my last relationship, I met this girl at one of my friends house, she was over there with her friend, she was just sitting on the couch.

I saw her on the couch and in my mind I thought "man, this girl is gorgeous." but I would never tell her. Lol my friend actually started talking to her first, well anyway the next day
I told my friend that I was really feeling the girl on the couch and he was like"really", so then I get this call and its him again, he says" remember that girl on the couch"? I'm like "yea why?" he said " well i told her you like her and shes going to call you today, i gave her your number". My heart dropped to that floor! Lol I screamed on him for a good 10 minutes! Lol but in the end him playing match maker actually started a pretty good relationship for me.

To tell you the truth if he didn't do that I probably would have never seen her again. Sometimes I think my shyness is a curse. Lol

You know the funny thing? She actually DID ask me out. Lol and I was like "hell yea"! Lol

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Originally Posted by alizeblu

lol well its like this: in my last relationship, i met this girl at one of my friends house, she was over there with her friend, she was just sitting on the couch.

i saw her on the couch and in my mind i thought "man, this girl is gorgeous." but i would never tell her. lol my friend actually started talking to her first, well anyways the next day
i told my friend that i was really feeling the girl on the couch and he was like"really", so then i get this call and its him again, he says" remember that girl on the couch"? im like "yea why?" he said " well i told her you like her and shes going to call you today, i gave her your number". my heart dropped to that floor! lol i screamed on him for a good 10 minutes! lol but in the end him playing match maker actually started a pretty good relationship for me.

to tell you the truth if he didnt do that i probably would have never seen her again. sometimes i think my shyness is a curse. lol

you know the funny thing? she actually DID ask me out. lol and i was like "hell yea"! lol

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Thanks alizeblu, I think I might have a lunch date(LOL)

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Originally Posted by alizeblu

lol well its like this: in my last relationship, i met this girl at one of my friends house, she was over there with her friend, she was just sitting on the couch.

i saw her on the couch and in my mind i thought "man, this girl is gorgeous." but i would never tell her. lol my friend actually started talking to her first, well anyways the next day
i told my friend that i was really feeling the girl on the couch and he was like"really", so then i get this call and its him again, he says" remember that girl on the couch"? im like "yea why?" he said " well i told her you like her and shes going to call you today, i gave her your number". my heart dropped to that floor! lol i screamed on him for a good 10 minutes! lol but in the end him playing match maker actually started a pretty good relationship for me.

to tell you the truth if he didnt do that i probably would have never seen her again. sometimes i think my shyness is a curse. lol

you know the funny thing? she actually DID ask me out. lol and i was like "hell yea"! lol

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Hey alizeblu,

Thanks for sharing!!... so funny :D

You must be one lucky guy. And you have a great friend there and I think that unlike you, (at least) he's not shy!! :p

Yea, but it wasn't luck. Lol but that's a story for another thread. Lol

I don't know, its crazy with us shy guys... we dare not pursue beauty.

When in reality beauty is out searching for us.

And we don't even know it, we're just too scared to appraoch.

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Originally Posted by alanalov

Why are (young adult) guys really shy sometimes around girls?

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that's because he madly truly in love with you he gets mesmorize evry tym your near to shy to speak speacily talking toa beautiful maiden such as you.. ^_^

Guyz like are people who have no any exp. When talking or meeting girlz they get confuse in what to do...

Well not all, some guys are completely confident in thierselves. Others (like me) are completely shy.

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Originally Posted by alanalov

Why are (young adult) guys really shy sometimes around girls?

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I use to be a shy guyn all you got to do is touch them in any way and we will act like we've known you forever

^^^^
huh?

Listen... if your shy and your sitting there alone at a prty or somthin and some fine comes over sits on your lap what the you going do cry?? No your going to in talk and act like a person... dont know how you find that funny

^^^
huh?