Hey okay so I got over my old best friend. I'm happy now. I miss her sometimes but its normal. Anyway we're just normal friends now and I found a new BFF.

We are very close, but the bad part we don't talk a lot like we don't text or anything. Is it normal? Or should I talk to her about. She's kind of the carefree kind of girl. She really is amazing but sometimes I don't feel she is the kind of person I can always go and tell her my problems I don't know.

But the main thing is that I'm worried we will be fading apart because now its summer and eventually I'm not going to see her for 3 month and we aren't really texting. What do you think I should do?

So you've decided to replace your old BFF who you were having problems with... with a new person who you've now decided is your new BFF? Does this girl also know she is supposed to be your BFF? Or did you just assign her that title in your mind?

So if she really was your true BFF, you wouldn't need to be concerned about this question that you're asking here... do you see what I'm saying?

I'm with odinin on this one, Does she know she is your BFF? Maybe her idea of best friend is not the same as yours.
You make more friends, so when one person is not available there are others. One person is not going to be there for you 24/7.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I'm with odinin on this one, Does she know she is your BFF? Maybe her idea of best friend is not the same as yours.
You make more friends, so when one person is not available there are others. One person is not going to be there for you 24/7.

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No we are! She even knows it.. we are like sisters..

Weren't the old best friend problems three weeks ago (May 24, to be exact) and now you have a new BFF and problems with this one? I think you for some reason are jumping into relationship after relationship.

You don't seem to understand the meaning of boyfriend and BFF.

I am suggesting that your various BFF threads be combined just for purposes of seeing what's gone on in the past.

Maybe the "boyfriend" posts, too.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Weren't the old best friend problems three weeks ago (May 24, to be exact) and now you have a new BFF and problems with this one? I think you for some reason are jumping into relationship after relationship.

You don't seem to understand the meaning of boyfriend and BFF.

I am suggesting that your various BFF threads be combined just for purposes of seeing what's gone on in the past.

Maybe the "boyfriend" posts, too.

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Dude... chill we just got closer and closer and I'm happy with this one.. she was by my side when everyone literally everyone was against me.

Dude, what Judy (not a dude, btw) says makes sense. Less than 3 weeks ago you were here going on about how you miss your BFF and don't know what to do. Now you have a new BFF and are already worried that you will lose contact over the summer. If she really is your BFF, that won't happen... this is why some of us question if she, in fact, realizes that both of you are supposed to be BFF's.

Dude, I'm actually a Dudette. Good that your new BFF was against you when everyone else was against you.

This brings us back to why everyone is frequently against you - ?

And when you and this BFF stop speaking she will join your other former BFF and she'll be against you, too. That's how these fast "we're like sister, any port in a storm" relationships can end up.

You are moving far too fast and you sound desperate for friends.

we don't talk a lot like we don't text or anything
Best friends at your age generally talk and text all the time. Does she see you as a best friend?

Yes I just read all the other comments and stuff and I get what they are saying. But I'm going to try to help you. Maybe you can text and call her and make plans to go see each other in person. You have her number right? You start the conversation! If you guys don't talk over the summer she just isn't the best friend. You will find somebody that's a real good friend.