Lately I have been having dreams that my husband was cheating on me. I dreamt he was cheating on with a very pretty blond girl at work. In my dream The girl who was in her early 20's approach me and said my husband told her the only reason he is still with me is because of our 2 year old daughter. We also share a four year old son. She went on to say that he does not love me. When I confronted him in my dream he was cocky and arrogant and said it was a lie. The girl confronted him and he admitted to it. I of course left him with my children. When I awoke It felt real, the feeling of betrayal was so real I felt very insecure and depressed. A few days later I found out that my husband had lied to me about joining a gym he had discussed the idea a few weeks ago and we both decided it was not a good idea because of our finances. Well I found a check to the gym. The problem I have when I called his work during lunch his supervisor tried many times to page him and I never could get a hold of him, his reply was he didn't hear the page. I also asked him did he go out for lunch and he assured me he ate right at work... which now I know he was at the gym. I am so upset due to the check he wrote we bounced a few checks. It caused a lot of financial problems.. My question is I feel like there is something more, is he cheating. He is acting cocky and distance. I don't know what to do? Please help.