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  • Jan 31, 2005, 04:39 PM
    rpailleret
    I need some good advice
    Lately I have been having dreams that my husband was cheating on me. I dreamt he was cheating on with a very pretty blond girl at work. In my dream The girl who was in her early 20's approach me and said my husband told her the only reason he is still with me is because of our 2 year old daughter. We also share a four year old son. She went on to say that he does not love me. When I confronted him in my dream he was cocky and arrogant and said it was a lie. The girl confronted him and he admitted to it. I of course left him with my children. When I awoke It felt real, the feeling of betrayal was so real I felt very insecure and depressed. A few days later I found out that my husband had lied to me about joining a gym he had discussed the idea a few weeks ago and we both decided it was not a good idea because of our finances. Well I found a check to the gym. The problem I have when I called his work during lunch his supervisor tried many times to page him and I never could get a hold of him, his reply was he didn't hear the page. I also asked him did he go out for lunch and he assured me he ate right at work... which now I know he was at the gym. I am so upset due to the check he wrote we bounced a few checks. It caused a lot of financial problems.. My question is I feel like there is something more, is he cheating. He is acting cocky and distance. I don't know what to do? Please help.
  • Feb 18, 2005, 05:19 PM
    CarmenAngel
    The Reason you have this Dream is usually a Warning and you know by your intuition that something is wrong. And the Dreams com from our subconcious Mind, it holds a lot not only from this present life also from a past life and sometimes it reveals what the future holds.

    I can tell that your marriage isent harmoniously for quiet some time. I can tell that your Husbend is very stubborn and a very biz oriented Man, it almost feels like he does kind a ignore you. You also do not communicate with each other not very healthy for a Relationship of any kind or Marriage. I also must tell you that the feeling you have is correct and there is a Lady at work
    Around him that has an eye on him and he pays a lot of Attention. Is he doing something in the real Estate Area?

    I also see 2 boys or 2 young Man around you do you have 2 Boys?

    You need to get out of the House more and do something for you that you enjoy meet people, Friends go outside and enjoy the Nature or a sit in the coffeeplace. Don't sit at home so much, its not good for you.Cause there may be oppurtunities that you may meet another Men that gives you the Attention and affection you are longing for. If you want this marriage to last you and your hubby need to change a lot and both need to be willing to do so.

    But to be honnest I do not see this marriage lasting from the cards it looks like maby 9- 12 Months. Of course I could be wrong and you have the Future
    In your Hands I can only make prognoses of your Future.

    Love and light
    Carmen
  • Feb 19, 2005, 08:51 AM
    rpailleret
    To Carmen Angel
    Thank you for your advice. I am interested in Real estate and my husband is a mechanic. I do not have 2 boys. I have visited my husband on many occasions at his job but there are older married women who work there? My husband was married before and had cheated on his first wife and he had asked for the divorce. Do you think my dreams are because I am afraid he will do it to me or is something that may happen in the future? I am so confused about this relationship sometimes it is perfect and when it is not our comunication does break down. We are moving, do you see this as a positive choice. I do need to get out of the house that is so true that is why I want to pursue real estate it is my passion.
    Thank you so very much
    Rpailleret
  • Dec 15, 2005, 10:22 PM
    tyieka
    Your dream
    Sometimes dreams can be premonitions or they can be drawn from the subconsious mind while sleeping, You have said you feel he is cheating on you the dream could be what you sumise is happening so you dream the senario you then awake believing it is true.

    Have you sat down with your husband and spoken about your dream or your fears for your relationship? Sometimes all that is needed is proper communication talk it out together.
    You maybe convincing yourself that things are happening when nothing is going on at all, You say you have financial worries he could be pre occupied with the same worries or worries of his own. Try not to jump to conclusions sit down, have a meal and talk openly and honestly, let him know you are there for him to share his worries with him.

    I feel that it is not the end of a marriage but the beginning of a better understanding within the marriage.

    I hope this will help you.
    Tyieka
  • Dec 29, 2005, 09:37 PM
    autumn
    Dreams
    Hi everyone,

    I have a queation about a dream I am having. My father passed away three months ago. I am having a dream about a having another child in this dream I name the baby after my father. I have had this dream before my father passed away and I would wake up before I named the child. Anyone have any answers. What does this dream mean?

    Thanks
    Autumn
  • Dec 30, 2005, 07:01 AM
    fredg
    What to do
    Hi,
    I am not a Psychic, so cannot give you that type of advice.
    But, since your husband is lying to you, that is a very bad "warning" sign that your relationship is not going very well.
    I suggest talking with him, and try getting him to go with you to a Professional Marriage Councelor. If he will go with you, it would start bringing out things, and getting you both to talking with each other; hopefully honestly. He is the one who needs the help.
    Just so you will know "where I'm coming from", I am 63 yrs old, married (for the second time) now for 28 yrs.
    I do wish you the best of luck, and Happy New Year.

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