I'm a teen and I'm in love with a guy who has a baby.
My neighbor has 2 grandsons that are my age (16) I have liked the younger one Shane since I've met him when I was 5. Nothing ever really happened. So they quit coming over for about a year, don't know why though. But during this spring break (2013) Shane messaged me on Facebook and told me that him and his baby (3 months old) and baby momma were at his grandmothers (my neighbor). So of course I told him that I wanted to go see his baby so I did. I held the baby and everything gave Shane a hug and left.
That night Shane had texted me and we started talking about how we have always liked each other since we were little. Its been about 2 months since we started texting and now we are "talking". But I can't see him because my mom doesn't want me dating someone who has a baby. Which is kind of understandable but I'm in love with him and she doesn't get that and I can't just drop him. I want to be with him but I want my mom to approve but I know she's not ever going to so what should I do? Keep it away from her? Or tell him I can't be with him? (which I don't want to do!! )