Ive been dating my girlfriend for 6 months now she seems to love me and says that she wants to get married. But she keeps all her exs on Facebook. I also heard she was cheating on me with one of her exs, I came to the conclusion that it wasn't true. She told me she confronted him to get to the bottom of the story, then she said he wanted to have sex with her and she told him no. At this point I'm like OK good your not cheating(this all happened in MAY this year) its now June and they became friends on Facebook 3 days ago. Now I'm like what!? Idk what to think why would she even be friends with him? And she's liking his posts too. Idk why she's with me and then still conversing with her exs I really love her but I feel really disrespected that she's still talking to her exs and then can talk to me like nothings going on. Idk what to do. I really care for her but this is ridicolous, because I would never do such a thing. I'm 17 she's 18 if that helps.

Have you actually tried to calmly talk to her and tell her how this all makes you feel?

Personally, I don't think I would trust her based on what you said but talking to her and seeing what she has to say about all this may change things. Tell her you are uncomfortable with her behavior and see where it goes.

I agree with odinn7. If the relationship is to even have a good chance at survival, it has to start with trust. Not fully trusting her after only six months, doesn't leave much to build a foundation on. Without trust, you have nothing.

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Have you actually tried to calmly talk to her and tell her how this all makes you feel?

Personally, I don't think I would trust her based on what you said but talking to her and seeing what she has to say about all this may change things. Tell her you are uncomfortable with her behavior and see where it goes.

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Yea ill talk to her when she answers her phone, it just confuses me because she was like she misses me but then she becomes friends with this guy, I don't understand why she wants to talk to him because I told her what he said about her. I can't say if she's cheating because I would think that she would break up with me instead.

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I agree with odinn7. If the relationship is to even have a good chance at survival, it has to start with trust. Not fully trusting her after only six months, doesn't leave much to build a foundation on. Without trust, you have nothing.

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Ive started to notice this I want to trust her but she's starting to make it hard tbh.

Lots of drama and BS for just 6 months.

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Lots of drama and BS for just 6 months.

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Yeah a lot of crap seemed to just start happening out of nowhere, but I probably won't be able to talk to her till tomorrow since she's graduating today , so she'll be busy. But trying to get it over with asap.

I would have walked with the first pregnancy scare. That was a RED FLAG you should not have ignored.