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  • Jun 6, 2013, 01:35 PM
    jackson06
    How do I find when and where a legal separation was filed. I know it was done around
    My mother legal separate her husband around the end of 1999 or early 2000. I do not know who the lawyer was at the time. I would like to know how to obtain a copy so I can have medical rights for her. Also would like to get her divorced from him. Please advise. Thanks
  • Jun 6, 2013, 01:38 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Go to the Clerk which handles divorces for the Court in your area - in my State it's the NY Supreme Court.

    The County will determine the exact location.
  • Jun 6, 2013, 01:44 PM
    cdad
    Do you have a POA over her? If so why?
  • Jun 6, 2013, 05:26 PM
    AK lawyer
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by cdad View Post
    Do you have a POA over her? If so why?

    And why do you ask? What does the answer possibly have to do with the OP's question?

    You do understand that OP wouldn't need a power of attorney to examine public records in the courthouse?
  • Jun 6, 2013, 06:40 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Possibly because the OP says he/she would like to "get" the mother divorced from the husband. I see no indication that this is what the mother is thinking.
  • Jun 6, 2013, 06:43 PM
    cdad
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by AK lawyer View Post
    And why do you ask? What does the answer possibly have to do with the OP's question?

    You do understand that OP wouldn't need a power of attorney to examine public records in the courthouse?

    You did read the whole question and not just parse it out? The OP Stated:

    I would like to know how to obtain a copy so I can have medical rights for her. Also would like to get her divorced from him. please advise. Thanks

    It sounds like they either are or want to have a POA to accomplish these tasks. They aren't stating that the mother wants to do this. Notice the use of "I".
  • Jun 7, 2013, 02:05 AM
    AK lawyer
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by cdad View Post
    You did read the whole question and not just parse it out? The OP Stated:

    I would like to know how to obtain a copy so I can have medical rights for her. Also would like to get her divorced from him. please advise. Thanks

    It sounds like they either are or want to have a POA to accomplish these tasks. They arent stating that the mother wants to do this. Notice the use of "I".

    A POA would not allow OP to "get" OP's mother divorced, if that is what you were thinking. OP never brought the subject of a POA up, you did..

    I'm thinking that by "get" he/she meant "assist" Mom to get.
  • Jun 7, 2013, 02:11 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    If you know it was done, does not your mom have her paper work ?

    Also who was the attorney doing the separation paper work ?

    From either a copy mother has, information from the attorney, or to to the court and ask for copies of the records, adn/or a record search
  • Jun 7, 2013, 07:33 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Divorce/separation records are available on line in my State. Anyone know where OP is?

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