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  • Jun 5, 2013, 03:03 AM
    confused006
    Is it normal??
    Is it normal that after having sex with my husband it seems that the sperms go out immediately from my vagina?
  • Jun 5, 2013, 03:08 AM
    ScottGem
    It is not abnormal that some semen does leak out.
  • Jun 5, 2013, 05:49 AM
    zh11
    Your vagina is not a vacuum, gravity will do it's job and some will leak out but not all of it.

    It is normal. :)
  • Jun 5, 2013, 07:14 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Yes, his (and your) fluids are gong to leak also
  • Jun 7, 2013, 06:15 AM
    confused006
    I am sorry I was just thinking if this could be the reason why I am not getting pregnant. Is it necessary to just lie down after having sex and not do anything? Tss.. do you think my questions are stupid?please don't.. thanks for all the response..
  • Jun 7, 2013, 07:08 AM
    ScottGem
    Its not a bad idea to put a pillow beneath you so that your hips are above your abdomen. And then lie there for 5-10 minutes.
  • Jun 7, 2013, 07:27 AM
    confused006
    Thank you very much.. I felt better now..
  • Jun 7, 2013, 08:31 AM
    CravenMorhead
    The truth is that conception is a tricky thing. The best thing to do is have sex often to get maximum exposure of sperm to the egg. You have to hit the egg at the right time and have it implant. Sometimes it will take months or years to conceive. Sometimes you will get it on the first month.

    Relax and have fun with it, you will get it eventually.
  • Aug 1, 2013, 01:57 AM
    confused006
    I am still having hard time getting pregnant. The first year was okay because we still do not plan of having a baby yet. But after getting married for more than one year and no baby at all puts pressure on me and on my husband..

    A friend recommend me to start taking pills as it is what her OB advised to do and after 6 months she got pregnant and deliver safely.

    Do you think it is wise to do the same thing? I am really desperate to have a baby..

    Thank you for all the response


    Best regards
  • Aug 1, 2013, 02:57 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by confused006 View Post

    a friend recommend me to start taking pills as it is what her OB advised to do and after 6 months she got pregnant and deliver safely.

    do you think it is wise to do the same thing? i am really desperate to have a baby..

    thank you for all the response


    Best regards

    Have you not discussed this with your OB/Gyn yet? There are many things that could cause infertility and just as many treatments for it. But you need to discuss these with your OB/Gyn to see what is best for you. Maybe there are pills that will help, we can't tell you that and you don't take meds unless they were prescribed by a physician.

    And stress can be part of the problem. So you need to relax and just enjoy the process.

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