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I'm 125lbs and he is 150 something and 5'11" and I'm stronger than my boyfriend. i beat him arm-wrestling and in a push-up contest. My twelve year old brother beat him wrestling and he's only 5'2" and no more than 110lbs. Is a wimp? Girls would you be turned off by your boyfriend if this happened to him?
You are superficial and shallow.
Just because a person isn't physically strong doesn't mean they don't stand out in other ways.
He's not a wimp, but you are cruel.
I would realize that some people are physically stronger than others, and that calling anyone a wimp is what a bully does. So, why do you bully a guy you obviously liked enough to date?
I would love him for who he is, and not be so shallow to label him just because he's not as strong as you.
He deserves someone a lot better than you. You are not a nice person. Who else do you bully? Do you think that makes you cool? News flash, bullies are the worst of the worst, they're the scum of the Earth. Those that pick on others because of their short fallings, are scum.
What comes around goes around. Hopefully you'll get yours soon, and learn something from it.
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Originally Posted by Alty
Oh, but I love him. And its not like I'm beating up on him, although the options is there. I have feelings for him, even though he's a wimp.
Shallow, okay, but superficial? I just want someone who can protect me, and if he's overpowered by me and my 12 year old brother how could he protect me from a grown guy if he had to. I love him though. Should I tell him to strength train?Quote:
Originally Posted by J_9
You are verbally and mentally abusive. You are a bully and he doesn't deserve you.
You don't love him or you wouldn't talk about him the way you do.
I think you are disgusting. Did it ever occur to you that he might let you and your brother win? I don't think he is a wimp, more a gentleman and you calling him such is wrong. He ought to get a clue and leave you alone.
No, you should tell him to get a girlfriend who respects him for who and what he is. You are not worthy of him.Quote:
Should I tell him to strength train?
I do. And he was always sort of cocky about his male dominance or manhood. So I'm shocked.Quote:
Originally Posted by J_9
You should tell him that you don't deserve him and he should find someone who respects and deserves him.Quote:
Originally Posted by AshleyL89
How old are you?
Sure. He was red, straining, and looked like he was going to cry after losing wrestling to my young brother. It wasn't fake. Maybe not a wimp then, but could use some strength training or wrestling lesson.Quote:
Originally Posted by Homegirl 50
No, you don't. You are here calling him a wimp. You don't love him, nor do you respect him.
You disgust me as well. You make me ashamed to be the same gender as you.
Are you putting your brother up to this to prove a point?
I think you are being silly. Leave the guy alone, you don't deserve him. Why should he take wrestling lessons? That is just immature. How old are you?
Since when is it your decision what he does with his life? If he wants to do strength training, that's his choice, not yours.Quote:
Originally Posted by AshleyL89
You don't care about him at all. You're a bully.
You said you want someone that can take care of you? Here's a tip. Learn to take care of yourself, don't rely on any guy to do it for you. You're the wimp if you expect a man to take care of you.
I'm guessing you're 13, 14? Hopefully when you become an adult you'll realize how mean you're being, and how silly your expectations are.
Let him go, he deserves someone better.
How about you learn how to protect yourself?Quote:
Originally Posted by AshleyL89
I am going to guess that you are only slightly older than your 12 year old brother. You certainly haven't learned what loving and accepting someone for being themselves is all about.
Do you like him or the person you think he should be? They are two different people.
This says it all. She doesn't beat up on him, but she can if she wants to. How is that not bullying?Quote:
And its not like I'm beating up on him, although the options is there
You mean you'd change your gender? Because of my opinion, or just ashamed because I think my boyfriend is physically inferior to me and my 12 yo brother?Quote:
Originally Posted by J_9
I do have feelings for him. I can't deny that.
You are a very cruel person. I'm guessing you don't have many friends.Quote:
And its not like I'm beating up on him, although the options is there
Hi. I'm 23 actually. So, you wouldn't leave your boyfriend if he may have been physically inferior to you? Or think of him any differently.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cat1864
Yes you do have feelings for him. They are called disrespectful feelings.Quote:
I do have feelings for him. I can't deny that.
No, of course not. He's proven that he's actually stronger than you because he is still with you. Or maybe he's a wimp because he hasn't left a disrespectful, manipulative, controlling (insert your favorite word here).Quote:
So, you wouldn't leave your boyfriend if he may have been physically inferior to you? Or think of him any differently.
Maybe he should leave you because you are emotionally inferior to him.
Ashley, you may not understand this but you are very close to being abusive, physically, mentally and emotionally.Quote:
Originally Posted by AshleyL89
A life lesson to learn, you cannot change or make someone else change to suit your needs or desires. The only person you can change is yourself. If you cannot accept him as the individual he is, then let him find someone who will.
Sometimes love isn't enough. Love doesn't last when there is no respect to support it.
Unlike you, I did not look for someone to 'protect' me. My father taught me to be able to protect myself. I chose my husband because his personality drew me in. I love him because of who he is, not because of what I think he should be.
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