I fell in love with a loser omg ,he literally played me to the left,I liked him sooo much I was so nice to him how could he ever just use me for money then I don't ever hear from him again... sad part is I still want him back he's 29 I'm 23.. I have a daughter and I work I have a car and live on my own .why wouldn't he want me?I found out he's been using other females exactly how he's been doing me.. but how can I keep him from doing All that ? How can I just get him get to be serious with only me ? I want him back now ? What should I text him?

Okay you learned a very important life lesson and now you want to learn it all over again? That is not a wise or healthy plan. Learn this lesson and move on. You were used. He's nothing more than a low life con artist. Don't let him control you that way.

Why do you want him back even after the horrible things he's done to you? Let me take a stab, he's good in bed and you're attracted to him.

He's not a good person. You're thinking with the wrong organ. Get your thoughts together and read what you posted. You know he's using you but you want him back. It would be a different case if he messed up once... maybe even twice. But I am guessing this guy is your typical "bad boy" who has attracted you to the point where you are being highly irrational.

Get it together and move on. You may think you're a grown up with kids, a car and a job, but in essence, you're thinking like a teenage girl with lust. Get past that and recognize what's going on.

Don't text him
Don't talk to him
Don't have sex with him

Move on.

You have some seriously deep seated issues if you're coming on here telling us that this guy used you for money, does it to other women, but now you want help from us on how to make him stop and get him back.

Guess what? It's not going to happen. This is what he does. The truth is painful but the truth is that he didn't really care about you, just your money. You will not somehow magically change that... learn from this and move on.

Yeah - what he said.

And why would you want to put your child around someone like that?