My man and I have been fighting off and on about his lack of interest in sex. If we do have sex, about once a week, it is because I complain until he does it. I usually have to threaten to end the relationship. It is very stressful for me to feel like I'm not wanted or desired. Even more stressful to have to FIGHT to give him oral or have sex. I'm very tired of it and want to end it. Last night I tried to give him oral and he wouldn't let me. Even though he was rock hard. And then a few minutes later asked me if I wanted to find a woman to have a threesome with.

Needless to say, I told him it was over. I want him out of my life. Did I do the right thing?

Yes. Too many issues to deal with in that relationship. That was pretty much a slap in the face to you so move on.

He insulted your feminity in the worse way, yes, get him out of your life and find someone who treats you like a woman

If two people are always fighting like that... they don't belong together because they aren't right for each other... period... and that's at a basic level...

The suggested 3-some would be the least of my concerns.

You apparently aren't happy together. This is not a healthy relationship.

Move on.

Did you even ask why he asked that question? Maybe a few minute of talking about could have avoided a hurtful situation. Maybe he has some ideas in his head that YOU need to listen to just for listening sakes. Communication work,, pissing and moaning and dumping someone just because they may say something stupid is just going to keep your lifer being miserable. How would you feel if he had to beg YOU to have sex? There are two ways to look at any situation.

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If we do have sex, about once a week, it is because I complain until he does it. I usually have to threaten to end the relationship.

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You should both be relieved that this thing has ended.