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  • Jun 3, 2013, 05:36 AM
    Spermdonation
    Sperm donation
    I am a 32 female attempting to get pregnant through ai sperm donation. I have three sperm donors and didn't know if it was bad to use all three in one month.
  • Jun 3, 2013, 05:37 AM
    JudyKayTee
    What facility is providing the sperm? What are their rules?

    I don't know why multiple donors would be a problem - why are you concerned?
  • Jun 3, 2013, 05:42 AM
    Spermdonation
    I had my first Pap smear a couple of weeks ago and I had previously been tested for all stds and was clean. And the three guys have been tested as well but when I got the results of my Pap smear it said I could possibly have BV. And I looked up what that meant and it said from having multiple sex partners. And it also said if you have BV it can cause miscarriage. So I didn't know if having three different guys sperm in me was causing the ph balance to be off




    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    What facility is providing the sperm? What are their rules?

    I don't know why multiple donors would be a problem - why are you concerned?

  • Jun 3, 2013, 05:46 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Good question- what does the agency say?
  • Jun 3, 2013, 05:49 AM
    Spermdonation
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Good question- what does the agency say?

    I haven't asked my obgyn yet. And I saw I could ask onhere. So I thought maybe someone would have came across this before
  • Jun 3, 2013, 05:55 AM
    JudyKayTee
    This is a really good question - and I can't find the answer!

    Frustrating!
  • Jun 3, 2013, 06:03 AM
    Spermdonation
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    This is a really good question - and I can't find the answer!

    I know I've tried looking online and it seems like they just assume you would use one person. But getting pregnant is difficult so it seems the more you have the better. However it may be the reason last month didn't work :/ and I definitely don't want to get some kind of bacterial infection
  • Jun 3, 2013, 06:10 AM
    J_9
    So basically you are having sex with multiple partners, not getting sperm through a sperm bank, correct?
  • Jun 3, 2013, 06:12 AM
    Spermdonation
    [QUOTE=J_9;3476739]So basically you are having sex with multiple partners, not getting sperm through a sperm bank, correct?[/QUOT

    It's AI with syringe. Never have had sexual intercourse
  • Jun 3, 2013, 06:14 AM
    J_9
    AI done by you or a doctor? Your chances are much slimmer if done by you than by AI by a trained medical provider.

    Is it bad to use all 3 in one month? Only if you don't care to know exactly who the father is.
  • Jun 3, 2013, 06:14 AM
    JudyKayTee
    How is the sperm being donated? Through a registry?
  • Jun 3, 2013, 08:05 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Sounds like she is doing this at home, not at a clinic, this will cause all sorts of legal issues, since the "donor" will if not done legally though a clinic, will have legal responsibilities as the father of the child, he will also have legal rights.

    This is not something you do at home, legally you are just having sex with them, as for as paternity is concerned

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