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I had my period on may 12 and had unprotected sex on may 17 and may 21 he pulled out fast but I've been getting upset stomach a lot lately not vomiting or anything a little tired as well also I feel really uncomfortable laying on my stomach at times.
BUT NOW I'M GETTING CRAMPS IN MY LOWER STOMACH WHAT DOES THIS MEAN? Please help
ANY time you have penile insertion you are risking pregnancy. So yes you could be pregnant. But it is too early for any symptoms of your pregnancy to manifest themselves.
We can't diagnose online.
Any time you have sex, pregnancy is possible. Even if you use 2 or more forms of protection pregnancy is possible. You had unprotected sex, since the pull out method is worthless, plenty of sperm in pre-ejaculate, which is present even if he pulls out, to get the job done, so you upped the odds.
You'll have to wait for your period. If it's at least 2 weeks late, try an at home pregnancy test using first morning urine. If it's negative, wait for your next period and if you miss it test again or get a blood test.
The pull out method is also known as trying to conceive, so good luck.
Thankz a lot for answering! I've been reading a lot about what I'm feeling and a lot of people went trough the same thing but its been a whole week since I had unprotected sex (the first time my period wasn't completely over) and I'm still feeling the same wayQuote:
Originally Posted by ScottGem
It's been a week since you had sex? Do you know how pregnancy works?Quote:
Originally Posted by MhizzMinaj
Educate yourself:
The G Spot - How Pregnancy Happens - For Planned Parenthood - YouTube
I'm only 17 I don't know how it all work that's why I'm asking!Quote:
Originally Posted by Alty
Then why are you doing things you don't know anything about? Would you bake a cake without a recipe?Quote:
Originally Posted by MhizzMinaj
If you don't know how pregnancy works, you shouldn't be having sex.Quote:
Originally Posted by MhizzMinaj
Click on the link that I posted, it explains how pregnancy happens. It's time to educate yourself.
Your age is no excuse. If you feel you're mature enough to have sex, which can lead to pregnancy, parenthood, then you should be mature enough to find out the information needed to make the decision to have sex.
Can you be easy on the judgement I'm not in court I'm not on trial plzz shut upQuote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
I'm not judging you. I'm asking you serious questions. Like Alty said, it's time to start looking at that recipe and educate yourself.Quote:
Originally Posted by MhizzMinaj
You posted on a public forum, and any member of this forum has the right to respond.Quote:
Originally Posted by MhizzMinaj
Fact is, you had sex at the age of 17 without even knowing how pregnancy happens. My 10 year old knows how pregnancy happens.
Is it your fault that you're not educated on this? Maybe not. But you have the internet, the internet has tons of information. You obviously figured out how to access this site, so there's no reason why you couldn't have accessed the information you needed to educate yourself before you had sex.
Saying "I'm only 17" is a pathetic excuse. If you're only 17, and you're not ready to be a mother, then you have no reason to have sex. You at least know that sex causes pregnancy, right?
You made a choice, now you'll have to deal with the consequences. That's the way the world works. Welcome to real maturity, which is accepting the consequences of your actions.
I'm sorry I'm just really stress about about itQuote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
I'm sure you are.Quote:
Originally Posted by MhizzMinaj
Look, I had sex as a teen too, and even though I knew the consequences, I really didn't think about them. I thought I was bullet proof, that teen pregnancy happens to other people, not to me.
That's the main reason that teens shouldn't be having sex, because they really can't look past the moment, they can't look at the future, until it's staring them in the face.
I got lucky, I never had an unwanted pregnancy. I hope you get lucky too, but right now it's a crap shoot, there's a very real possibility that you're pregnant.
If you get lucky and you're not, educate yourself. Realize that your actions have consequences, and if you keep doing what you're doing, you're playing russian roulette. If you dodge the bullet this time, learn from it. Watch the link I posted, it's educational, and it's actually pretty fun to watch too. Educate yourself, you're the one responsible for doing so.
I'm sorry I'm just really stressed out about itQuote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
Want to add.
If you don't dodge the bullet this time, you have options. None of the options are easy. But, you do have options. If you need to talk them out we're willing to help. All we ask is that you educate yourself. If you're not ready to be a mom, you shouldn't be having sex, because even with protection, even with 3 forms of protection all used correctly, you can get pregnant. Any time you have sex it's possible.
Educate yourself. It's your body, do you really want to go through life not knowing how it works, and what can happen to it when you do what you want? You have to be proactive about your education. No one else will be.
I accept your apology. Let's say you dodge a bullet this time. Now, what about your future with boys and sex?Quote:
Originally Posted by MhizzMinaj
And that goes for disease and medical conditions of all kinds too. Always stay on top of the situation by educating yourself about whatever it is -- ask questions of medical people, do library and Internet research, talk with people who have been through the same thing. Not that your experience will be the same as anyone else's, but learn all you can. Don't be a deer in the headlights.Quote:
Originally Posted by Alty
We understand that. But you shouldn't have engaged in sex without understanding what you were doing.Quote:
Originally Posted by MhizzMinaj
Sex is not a recreational sport. If being pregnant stresses you out then why did you take the risk?
But the bottom line is that tis too early for what you are feeling to be an indication of pregnancy. More likely it's a symptom of the stress you are feeling.
You can be pregnant, at one week, there is no signs no telling, it takes 2 or 3 days for sperm to even reach egg.
Pulling out does not stop sperm, just lowers amount.
I will agree, you don't spread your legs, till you know how it works, and how to protect it.
Nope, it's around 7 days Chuck, not 2 or three.Quote:
you can be pregnant, at one week, there is no signs no telling, it takes 2 or 3 days for sperm to even reach egg.
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