My husband's mistress's son needed to have a suit jacket. Since my hubby and he are about same size, he told me he told his ex mistress he can just wear his. The affair is over so is my husband genuine?

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If the affair is over why is he in contact with her and/or lending her clothing for herself or her son?

You have posted numerous questions, opened numerous threads about his relationship with this woman. I have no idea what you expect anyone to say. I think it's all been said - except, of course, why you put up with his nonsense and still haven't left.

I find 25 threads on the subject.

Of course, your AMHD profile states you are single and ready to mingle, so maybe you deserve each other. You both choose when to and when not to present yourself as married.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

If the affair is over why is he in contact with her and/or lending her clothing for herself or her son?

You have posted numerous questions, opened numerous threads about his relationship with this woman. I have no idea what you expect anyone to say. I think it's all been said - except, of course, why you put up with his nonsense and still haven't left.

I find 25 threads on the subject.

Of course, your AMHD profile states you are single and ready to mingle, so maybe you deserve each other. You both choose when to and when not to present yourself as married.

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You really think that was a big deal to throw him out.He only offered being nice

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Originally Posted by lisa1471

You really think that was a big deal to throw him out.He only offered being nice

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If he was only being nice, why are you worried?

If you doubt his loyalty, why are you with him?

I think you need to decide what you believe and go from there.

If you believe and trust him, stay and work on your marriage.

If you suspect he was kind because the affair is still on-going, leave him or kick him out.

It all comes down to what you believe and want. That isn't something we can decide for you.

Both responses above cover it all, but I'm still curious - is this the husband you divorced in October of 2011, or a new one? That one was a cheater too.

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Originally Posted by joypulv

Both responses above cover it all, but I'm still curious - is this the husband you divorced in October of 2011, or a new one? That one was a cheater too.

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Ate they really just want to make sure he was only being nice that's all.

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Ate they really just want to make sure he was only being nice that's all.

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Me thinks you didn't answer the question on the table...

Methinks thus has it always been -

Now moving on to the 26th thread...

It's his son, he is supposed to look out for him.

I have a friend who used to call me up and rant about how awful her husband was. If I so much as mmmmed in agreement, she would hang up on me in anger for maligning her husband.

You want to know if your husband is genuine, and then defend his actions.
There's your answer. You just wanted the chance to do that.

I think this is, at best, a strange relationship.

Is OP married? Single? Different husband? Same husband?

How many more threads before they are combined? I'm tired of reading back threads to find out what's going on - all 23 (give or take) of them.

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Me thinks you didn't answer the question on the table...

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Huh?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

I think this is, at best, a strange relationship.

Is OP married? Single? Different husband? Same husband?

How many more threads before they are combined? I'm tired of reading back threads to find out what's going on - all 23 (give or take) of them.

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Don't know where your going with this just stick to current. Much easier.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

It's his son, he is supposed to look out for him.

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Where did you read its his son.Mistress's son and he's grown man.what are you talking about? I would have said his kid with his mistress.No he don't have to loom out.#1 he's grown # 2 not his son

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I have a friend who used to call me up and rant about how awful her husband was. If I so much as mmmmed in agreement, she would hang up on me in anger for maligning her husband.

You want to know if your husband is genuine, and then defend his actions.
There's your answer. You just wanted the chance to do that.

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No busy wanted to know the reason that's all.

Just want to know the reason

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Just want to know the reason

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The reason for what? Your "husband" cheating or why you are putting up with it and him?

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The reason for what? Your "husband" cheating or why you are putting up with it and him?

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If you actually go back through her posts... you will see that not only does the husband cheat, but she does as well. This relationship is an absolute mess.

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Just want to know the reason

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Know the reason he offered to lend the mistresses son the jacket? We're not psychic. Ask him why he offered. Ask him why he still talks to this woman. Ask yourself why you're still with him, and why both of you can't seem to be faithful to each other. We can't help you with any of this, you have to put on your big girl panties and figure this out yourself.

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Know the reason he offered to lend the mistresses son the jacket? We're not psychic. Ask him why he offered. Ask him why he still talks to this woman. Ask yourself why you're still with him, and why both of you can't seem to be faithful to each other. We can't help you with any of this, you have to put on your big girl panties and figure this out yourself.

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Thank you for your advice! Much better now

It must be very difficult to forgive someone who cheats. Trusting that person again would be very difficult as well because you never forget. Not sure I could be the forgiving type.

Ask him why he did it, also ask him why he's still talking to her?