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  • May 19, 2013, 11:00 AM
    minato
    Pregnancy query
    I had sex with my GF this may 15, it was her ovulation week, but I didn't inside her, I'm just worried about pre .

    So by May 17 after she told me that she had white milky thing coming out from her vagina, we decided to buy Nordette. She took the first dose by 1pm which is May 18, and the next dose is May 19 1am. Will she get pregnant? Thanks for answering. >.<

    -Kean
  • May 19, 2013, 11:02 AM
    JudyKayTee
    There is no way to know. There are no guarantees, and nothing is 100% effective. Sex is a risky business, and you played the odds.
  • May 19, 2013, 11:23 AM
    tickle
    Precum is just as functional as semen inside her, so yes, she could be pregnant. The white thingy you mention (you could have said discharge) is sometimes evident before ovulation, but then that would happen even if she was pregnant.

    Actually, half the battle is a woman knowing all of her bodily functions, and keeping track of her ovulation. She has probably seen this white discharge before but it was of no important then so thought nothng of it.

    You have to be knowledgeable as well and know that precum is just as potent.
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    In other words, tell her to do an HPT with first morning urine, or go to the doctor and get a blood test done to determine pregnancy. We can't tell you if she is or not.
  • May 19, 2013, 11:33 AM
    minato
    well yeah. I was planning to have her take PT by the 29th of this month which is 2weeks after we did it. Anyway thanks for the answer. ^^
  • May 19, 2013, 12:26 PM
    JudyKayTee
    YOU were "planning to have her take"?

    Isn't she concerned? What are your ages?
  • May 19, 2013, 12:33 PM
    minato
    Her 17. Me 18, she knows about the PT thingy.
  • May 19, 2013, 12:36 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Maybe it's the way you worded it - sounds like you are deciding what she will and will not do, sounds like she has no say in her own life.

    Or are you just speaking on her behalf?

    Are you prepared to be a father? Is she prepared to be a mother? Have you thought that far ahead?
  • May 19, 2013, 12:41 PM
    minato
    We're both not. That's why we used nordette as an ECP.
  • May 19, 2013, 01:36 PM
    JudyKayTee
    I understand - but apparently you knew the odds and nothing is 100% effective (or safe). I would suggest the HPT and birth control in the future - assuming you don't want to be a father soon.
  • May 19, 2013, 01:45 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by minato View Post
    well yeah. i was planning to have her take PT by the 29th of this month which is 2weeks after we did it. anyway thanks for the answer. ^^

    That's too early to test.

    She'll have to wait for her next period (which may be screwed up because of the day after pill), and then test two weeks after if she misses her period. Use first morning urine. If that test is negative, she'll have to wait until her next period and test again if she misses it, or get a blood test done at that time.

    If you play adult games, you have to be prepared for the adult consequences. Sex causes pregnancy, and there's no form of birth control on the market that's 100%. If you're not prepared to be a father, you're not ready to have sex, that's the bottom line.

    Good luck.

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