Dating a girl four months and she wants time and space to think about things. We see each other every two weeks over a weekend. We love each other but the distance seems to be causing a problem. Right before the break I met her parents. That's an odd thing in my book to meet the parents and then go on a break. The parents liked me so that wasn't the issue. She says one of the things that bothers her is that I can be smothering. Like I want to talk too much, expect her to text back right away, call me after she's been out, etc.