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My girlfriend thinks she is pregnant.

We've been dating for 3 years. I'm 20 she's 25. She has a child. My girlfriend thinks she is pregnant but refuses to take a test to kill the suspense for me .She always does things like this.

She says she feels a weird moving in her stomach. She is not gaining weight nor experiencing nausea or missed periods other symptoms she always have like hungry all the time, stomachache and tired or sore but she recently has done long walks.

I'm scared because my family hates her and we have been secretly dating. HELP!!

Do you think she is playing mind games with you?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Do you think she is playing mind games with you?

Idk she sounds excited I love her but this is not the right time for this to happen we are in college and trying to move out of our parents homes to marry and live together

If she has gotten her period she is not pregnant.

I think she enjoys keeping you on the edge and worried with drama. After 3 years you have a preview of things to come if you get married. I suggest you do something about the drama or forever hold your peace.

As Scot say if she is having her periods on time, she is likely not pregnant.

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Originally Posted by mitch850

Idk she sounds excited I love her but this is not the right time for this to happen we are in college and trying to move out of our parents homes to marry and live together

Just maybe the time to worry about this is when it is time to put on Mr. Condom.

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Originally Posted by Oliver2011

Just maybe the time to worry about this is when it is time to put on Mr. Condom.

AND keep careful count of her BIRTH CONTROL pills. :)

How far along does your girlfriend say she is? Are you sure she is still having her period?

If she is having her period I agree with Scot and Talaniman, having her period like normal is a likely indicator that she is not pregnant. However, there is that slight chance that she could be one of those women who still get their monthly cycle until the 3rd trimester.

I would be persistent and keep bugging her to take a HPT. Because she has already had a child, she should know that it is very important for her well being as well as the unborn baby, to see a Doctor. She needs prenatal care. If she doesn't budge chances are she is telling you a story.

Maybe she feels like she needs to become pregnant to keep you around. You did state that your parents do not care for her. She could think that if she became pregnant this could make them like her?

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Originally Posted by busymomma2013

How far along does your girlfriend say she is? Are you sure she is still having her period?

If she is having her period I agree with Scot and Talaniman, having her period like normal is a likely indicator that she is not pregnant. However, there is that slight chance that she could be one of those women who still get their monthly cycle until the 3rd trimester.

I would be persistent and keep bugging her to take a HPT. Because she has already had a child, she should know that it is very important for her well being as well as the unborn baby, to see a Doctor. She needs prenatal care. If she doesn't budge chances are she is telling you a story.

Maybe she feels like she needs to become pregnant to keep you around. You did state that your parents do not care for her. She could think that if she became pregnant this could make them like her?

We do use condoms only unprotected once and that was less than a month ago yet she believed she was four months along and we didn't have sex four months ago. I finally got her to take 2 test today and no baby like I thought I feel better and she's happy that's all I needed thanks you guys

You are welcome! I am happy to hear that you got to the bottom of it!

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Originally Posted by busymomma2013

You are welcome! I am happy to hear that you got to the bottom of it!

I feel way better and my view on condoms are even stronger

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Originally Posted by mitch850

I feel way better and my view on condoms are even stronger

Smart man...