My name is Heith, and I am 16 years old and a sophomore. I have a wonderful girlfriend and we have been together for awhile.. But I have noticed that she pays a lot of attention to other guys and it really bothers me. I sacrifice a lot of time to be with her and would do anything for her. But I absolutely hate how she will always flirt with other guys and her ex boyfriends. And it seems like she is always trying to avoid me.. I usually just follow her around but I seems like she is trying to get away from me. I don't want to be too clingy so I just give up and go somewhere else.. Sometimes I leave. But if I start avoiding her, she will come and act so " innocent". What should I do? I'm getting really ing sick of this .

What part of her is "wonderful"? I'm not hearing that in your details about her.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

What part of her is "wonderful"? I'm not hearing that in your details about her.

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Well, sorry for forgetting to put what I like about her in there. She is very pretty and really nice. She has great grades and has a caring heart. I just wish she showed more caringness to me.

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Originally Posted by XxBM3NDOZAxX

Well, sorry for forgetting to put what I like about her in there. She is very pretty and really nice. She has great grades and has a caring heart. I just wish she showed more caringness to me.

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Pretty does not mean "wonderful." Great grades does not mean "wonderful." A caring heart? Nice to everyone but you?

What would happen if you didn't seek her out or talk with her for a week? Would she wonder where you were?

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Pretty does not mean "wonderful." Great grades does not mean "wonderful." A caring heart? Nice to everyone but you?

What would happen if you didn't seek her out or talk with her for a week? Would she wonder where you were?

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She would probably think I'm mad at her.. I doubt she would care much.. Should I just break up with her? And I was trying to look on the good side of her. She wasn't like this at the beginning of our relationship

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She would probably think I'm mad at her.. I doubt she would care much.. Should I just break up with her? And i was trying to look on the good side of her. She wasn't like this at the beginning of our relationship

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And how do you propose to break up with her? It doesn't sound like there is much to break up over.

How long have you been dating? If you are unhappy with her break up with her. Why would you stay if you are unhappy.

She's a loser... don't put yourself through this. Break up with her.

If talking brings no changes then its bet to let her go. Have you tried talking yet so she knows what's bugging you?