I have been married to my husband for three years. He is a member of the United States Air Force. I moved all over the United States in the last three years and we finally settled down to one spot... for now. The problem is this: I don't have my driver's licence, car, job, etc and my husband won't help me get it. I have no money and no way to get my licence without assistance. Ideally, my husband would help by allowing me to use his car for practice and teach me how to drive. I don't have any friends or acquiescence here and we live on base so I have no way to get on or off base even if I did find someone to help. These circumstances are making it extremely difficult for me to have any independence financially or personally because I cannot get a job on base and it is over a mile and a half just to get off base, let alone to walk to a town. Needless to say, I'm getting frustrated and I've even been to the point of tears today, after my husband humiliated me on the phone when he was around his coworkers while we were discussing options. I feel like he is restricting my ability to become independent as well as constantly humiliating me and belittling me in our relationship. I cannot say or do anything without him screaming at me or correcting me to do it "the right way". I have wanted to leave our relationship but I cannot because I have no where to go and my family was abusive to me so they are not an option. Can someone please help me figure out what to do?
