We talked and stuff we learned more about each other, but you see I have this huge crush on him. He told me that he is a player with girls but I didn't really care because I really like him. He wanted to see me in person at school. I stood at my register class and he saw me. Later I asked him... so you saw me at school today and he said yes then he asked me out and I said yes. He just said thank you man and that night I said goodnight and everything.

The last thing I said is that I hope we at least last a month then he just said me too. So I don't know if he really likes me. Do you know how I can make him really like me? I'm crazy about him :(

You can't make anyone like you, especially not him. If he's a player, there is only one person he likes, and it isn't you.

Of course he likes you, and he will like your best friend, he will like a girl in another class all at the same time, So as long as you do not care about sharing him it is OK, Since you know he is a player, that means you accept being cheated on.

He likes you for the moment. You sound terribly desperate. You hope you last at least a month. That is sad.

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chantelle fouri (1 Posts) Asked Today, 02:06 AM
We talked and stuff we learned more about each other, but you see I have this huge crush on him. He told me that he is a player with girls but I didn't really care because I really like him. He wanted to see me in person at school. I stood at my register class and he saw me. Later I asked him ...so you saw me at school today and he said yes then he asked me out and I said yes. He just said thank you man and that night I said goodnight and everything.

The last thing I said is that I hope we at least last a month then he just said me too. So I don't know if he really likes me. Do you know how I can make him really like me? I'm crazy about him

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May I ask how old you both are?

You need to take a step back and think about what you have written.

He didn't ask you out until he saw what you looked like in person. He didn't even bother to come over and say 'hi', wave or arrange a way to meet you. He just wanted a look and if he didn't like what he saw, he could have lied and said he missed you or broken off contact then and there. You aren't the person he has the date with, your body is.

What makes him worth your attention? You do understand that having a crush on someone is not the same as being love, don't you? Crushes are one-sided and can fade as quickly as they develop. Relationships (including friendships) develop over time. I doubt he is going to give this the same amount of time you will. I will almost bet that if the relationship doesn't progress at his pace or the way he wants, you will soon be asking why he hasn't called in a week.

Please do not allow having a crush blind you to the warning signs. If you can have fun and move on, good luck. If you don't think you can, then do not allow things to go any farther.