I'm in the 9th grade and have never had a boyfriend... I'm 5'6 and 205 pounds... I have liked about 3 guys, but they have never known that I even existed.. I've been called "pretty" but by family... I have dark brown hair, dark brown eyes, and I'm olive completed... But I have never had a guy tell me that I was beautiful... I've talked to someone over kik, and we really liked each other, but when he saw what I looked like he stopped talking to me all he told me was " sorry bit I don't date fat girls" and that didn't help me low self of steem... I know I'm pretty, but every girl needs the feeling of being wanted... :/ I just want someone who wants me for me... :/ any help? Thanks..

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Hello,

I don't think weight has a lot to do with it you must first love yourself once you can do this you can began to love others no matter what size you are.

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Originally Posted by shanimcshay

Hello,

I don't think weight has alot to do with it u must first love urself once you can do this u can began to love others no matter what size u are.

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Thank you..

Some guys will not date, black girls, some will not date white girls, some want only a certain skin tone. There are guys that only date heavy girls, and some only date girls with big breasts, so get used to it, that no all guys will like you. Just have to find the right one.

If weight is an issue, what are you doing about that

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

some guys will not date, black girls, some will not date white girls, some want only a certain skin tone. There are guys that only date heavy girls, and some only date girls with big breasts, so get used to it, that no all guys will like you. Just have to find the right one.

If weight is an issue, what are you doing about that

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Well, I'm working on losing weight, but I'm still extremely shy, and am TERRIFIED to even talk to guys... ::

Well I'm 15 and I'm 5'6 and 208 pounds...
I'm in 9th grade and have never had a boyfriend... I've never even "talked" to a guy... I've always had self conscious problems, but I've overcame that a lot... I'm still shy, but I'm trying...
I want to know if I can get some tips about what guys like, so maybe they can go for my personality instead of my looks first... I know I'm pretty but I've never had a guy tell me that... Any help? Thanks...

Guys aren't a foreign species - talk to them like you talk to girls. There's no particular script to follow.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Guys aren't a foreign species - talk to them like you talk to girls. There's no particular script to follow.

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Thanks... They just don't like me lol

And do you have a lot of female friends?

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Originally Posted by Braileybourque1

Thanks... They just don't like me lol

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Then there is something wrong in how you relate to people. In this morning's newspaper, an advice columnist printed stories about fat women who have female friends and boyfriends. Their secret is to think of and be more concerned with the other person (not themselves), to be well-groomed and wear clothes that fit (not try to get into too-small outfits), to be clean and well-groomed. The main thing, though, was to be able to get outside of your own ego and be able to sincerely empathize with the other person.