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  • May 11, 2013, 11:39 AM
    amy12389034
    Why am I too scared to ask a boy out?
    Hi

    I am way to scared to ask this boy called Dylan who I totally have a crush on, out. I don't now what to do. Please give me answers.

    Thanks
  • May 11, 2013, 11:48 AM
    brynne13
    Think of it as just saying a few words to him. You may want to be aware of your body language and facial expressions too. Practice in a mirror.
    Please give me feedback on my answer.
  • May 11, 2013, 12:23 PM
    amy12389034
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by brynne13 View Post
    Think of it as just saying a few words to him. You may want to be aware of your body language and facial expressions too. Practice in a mirror.
    Please give me feedback on my answer.

    What few words ? Xxx please give feedback on my question x
  • May 11, 2013, 12:50 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Do you two know each other? Have you spoken to him at all. Just ask him if he'd like to see a movie or go out for whatever teenagers do.
  • May 11, 2013, 01:01 PM
    amy12389034
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Do you two know each other? Have you spoken to him at all.? Just ask him if he'd like to see a movie or go out for whatever teenagers do.

    Just to let everyone now I am 11.
  • May 11, 2013, 01:05 PM
    Wondergirl
    Are your parents okay with you wanting to ask a boy out to something?

    (What would you do with him? Neither of you can drive.)
  • May 11, 2013, 01:32 PM
    Homegirl 50
    What does asking a boy out at 11 years old mean?
  • May 11, 2013, 06:37 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    I think it means you are too young and not ready for dating yet
  • May 11, 2013, 06:50 PM
    Homegirl 50
    You are too young.
  • May 12, 2013, 12:42 AM
    amy12389034
    My mum is totally OK with me dating a boy xxxx what I would like to now is what should I say to him ?xxx
  • May 12, 2013, 04:58 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by amy12389034 View Post
    My mum is totally ok with me dating a boy xxxx what I would like to now is what should I say to him ?xxx

    What does dating mean to you? And frankly I don't believe your mother is OK with you dating. I also don't think you understand what dating means.

    I've said this before. The media has glorified romantic relationships. So children want to emulate these adult behaviors before they are ready. You are a child and not ready. Enjoy being a child a few years more and stop trying to grow up too fast. This is why you are scared to ask, because you are not mature enough to deal with it.
  • May 12, 2013, 07:22 AM
    Wondergirl
    If you are scared to ask him and don't know what to talk about, you are years too young for "dating" (whatever you think that means). And I too believe your mum would be horrified if you think you are ready to date.
  • May 12, 2013, 07:29 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by amy12389034 View Post
    My mum is totally ok with me dating a boy xxxx what I would like to now is what should I say to him ?xxx

    If your mom is OK with you dating, ask her what you should say to him.
  • May 12, 2013, 07:32 AM
    J_9
    Amy honey, give it a few years. Most 11 year old boys are not interested in girls, they are interested in xbox, football or soccer just yo name a few. My 11 year old son wants nothing to do with girls.

    11 year olds are too young to be in boyfriend/girlfriend relationships.

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