Okay I admit it I'm desperate! But I just want a boyfriend. I haven't had one and this really bothers me because all my friends are in a relationship and then there's me. All lonely. I just want to have a boyfriend. I'm tired of being the only one without a boyfriend... no rude answers please. Just give me some tips?

How old are you and why do you feel the NEED to have a boyfriend?

There's no step by step procedure in finding a boyfriend, and the people that only want a boyfriend because everyone else has one, are bound to be disappointed.

How old are you? Are there any boys you're interested in, or does it matter if you like them or not, you just want a boyfriend no matter what, or who?

My advice to you is to wait, don't be in a rush over something like this just because you want to fit in. I doubt that everyone you know has a boyfriend, and if you're as young as I think you are, having a boyfriend doesn't mean what you think it does.

You'll find someone you like, one day, that likes you back just as much. If you're under age you then ask your parents if you're allowed to date, he asks his parents, and if both your parents say yes, then you date. But don't be in a rush over this. When you meet someone you like, that's when you think about dating. It's not something you should do because everyone else is doing it.

You become friends with a boy and it goes from there.

And I would bet "all of your friends" do not boy friends, at least in the sense that I would think of one.

Your age and the nation where you live will help narrow answers

I'd like to know why you think you will get rude answers. If you are desperate to meet someone, have a boyfriend, that desperation will show and will drive people away. Why not find a friend who happens to be male and see what happens from there?

Do you have male friends?

Having a boyfriend/girlfriend isn't all that you think it is. Live for yourself and when it happens, it happens.

Be you. Guys like independence ( as hard to believe as it may sound). If you want to get a guy show him that you're not afraid to be you.

What constitutes "independence" in a 6th or 7th grader?

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

What constitutes "independence" in a 6th or 7th grader?

---

Good question. Maybe it's going to the playground all by yourself. ;)

OP is 13. Just finished 7th grade?
Don't worry until high school, which is nothing but sorting out the intricacies of relationships. Even though you really do most of your learning after high school.