My girlfriend and I have only been dating for about three months, but unlike past relationships this one was going PERFECT. No arguments, no drama, just happiness, not just for me but her too. Last weekend we had our first "argument" and I acted quite different for about 2.5 days. Since she has not been the same, It took me a couple days to get back to my normal self but she just seemed very distant for that week. Today she said she wanted to take the weekend to think about things and spend time with her family and friends. At first I responded badly, by getting angry and asking why. But then I said "ok well take your time and contact me when you're ready." She told me that I didn't have to stop contacting her all together. When I told her that I was going out with some friends for the night, she was kind of mad about it. She texted me that she was going to bed and I may have made the mistake of telling her that I loved her(we've said it before) but she said it back.
Im kind of confused by all this. My first thought was that there was someone else she was interested in but I just can't see that because we have been very close and she literally doesn't have the time and we pretty much see each others text and Facebook stuff. She said its all over the argument we had, which is understandable, but what's so confusing is that she is letting this "smaller" argument erase all the good things that I've/we've done.
How do you guys translate this?
Thanks!
