My husband says he loves me the way I am I am over weight and sometimes I feel not pretty but he tell me all the time he love me the way I am but when we eat he bring me a very small portion of food I don't mind cause I don't like to eat a lot but what is he really saying

Its called being nice... and being tactful... rather than giving you a huge plate of food that's overflowing.

Because he'd like to see you reach old age and be healthy along the way.