My boyfriend moved into my house, can I expect him to pay for my household bills?
I am currently unemployed and act almost like his wife. I cook, wash his dishes and laundry, fulfill his sexual needs (which can be morning and night)... He is still paying for his own nice apartment that he doesn't utilize (I hate this, but he won't let it go for a few reasons) while he's always at my place. He's literally lived with me since December of last year, but I only started charging him rent last month. The amount of rent plus utilities I charge is only a fraction of his apartment dues. Lately this thought has been bothering me more and more, I feel that I'm being taken advantage of. Is it really unfair, or am I being resentful? Sometimes he suggests to go half and half on expenses, but I don't think this concept is always fair because I am the one who put a large down payment on the house and furnished it. And besides, he earns a lot of money, much much more than me when I do work, and at the present I'm struggling financially. We do love each very much and we see ourselves getting married in near future. I don't want to ask for money and allow him think I'm a gold digger. So recently I told him that he's an added burden to me and I asked him to move back to his apt while we continue to date. Please let me know your thoughts and give suggestions what I should do or how I should talk to him. I'm really stressful right now due to a few other problems that I'm dealing with (divorce, getting a rental property that is out of whack ready for sale).