After 16 years of being together, he took a job in Texas, and said he would transfer back to the East Coast as soon as he could. When he left we have all kinds of plans made for our future. After a year and a half he got transferred back to the East Coast. He text me telling me he no longer wanted to be with me, and I have not seen him face to face . He tells me he's moving on and that I should to but I have no closure. He won't talk about it and he won't see me I don't know where he lives I only have limited contact with him by a cell phone to which he will only text me when he feels like it. I don't know what to do, I'm stuck in a spot that can get out of and I can't move forward. This whole thing is my life I was blindsided up until the day he told me no longer wanted to be with me, used to call me and tell me how much he loved me. And on my birthday he sent me a beautiful card and gold earrings and in car he said these are the truest words I know I love you and I will be singing them to you for the rest of your life. And then six months later he said I no longer want to be with you. I don't understand this, can you help me understand what happened?