I was in a serious relation with a guy for 1 year. Who left me after making so many promises to me, after letting me to get attached to him, just because his parents don't agree for our relation. We used to have oral sex. I cried and begged him to not to go, but he left me.

I took sleeping pills many times, but when I recovered a little he again came after 3 months asking me to meet which I accepted. But now after 3 months he is again leaving me for the same reason of his parents. We have same religion caste and he says that he still loves but then also he don't marry me. I asked him that OK you don't marry me as your parents don't want, but please then don't marry any other girl for me, because I can't see you with another girl. But he said no I can't do so. He asked me to be his friend forever.

I am not getting what to do. I love him very much, he is my life.. I'll die now. What to do? Please help.

Omg ! How old is he ? If he is old enough then he should be able to marry you , If he really loves you he will marry you even if his parents don't accept . If his parents don't accept you for any good reasons then he should fight the whole world even his parents to marry you . If he loves you he will never leave you . Why you die for him are you stupid ? Sorry to say this . But believe me there are too many guys there for you and don't worry . Don't make anything that bothers god in the future and be a good muslim or chirstian person . SEX is after marriage . Have a good day .

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Originally Posted by honada

Omg ! how old is he ? If he is old enough then he should be able to marry you , If he really loves you he will marry you even if his parents don't accept . If his parents don't accept you for any good reasons then he should fight the whole world even his parents to marry you . If he loves you he will never leave you . Why you die for him are you stupid ? sorry to say this . But believe me there are too many guys there for you and don't worry . Don't make anything that bothers god in the future and be a good muslim or chirstian person . SEX is after marriage . Have a good day .

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I am 20 and he is 29...
I love him very much... I don't feel like eating or doing anything when he leaves me... So its better to die then to live such a bad life without him... he says that OK we can be friends but I have never considered him as a friend... I really love him and his absence hurts me... what should I do?
Evrytime god do such cases with me.. last year my father left us cause he want to marry some other girl... nd now my love.. m very depressed.. I feel there is no one for me in this world

Holy crappies. You have this posted three times all with different ages and text. And honestly what is the point of telling us you had oral sex?

Based on what you tell us your actions have been after the relationship, you are too immature to be in a relationship.

People breakup. It is common. Deal with it and move on.

Oral sex? What you mean by that? Anyway, stop taking pills and hurting yourself. My best friend has gone similar kind of thing but now she is married and have a 3 year old baby. All you have to do is believe that this person is not honest with you. He doesn't deserve you. You are too much giving for such undeserving fellow. So move on. You have a precious life, you have family and friends. They all love you and don't take granted your life. Future has better planning for you. Stand up for yourself respect and dignity.

Your obsession with this fellow has you playing all kinds of games and isn't healthy. Get help, and get your life in order without him in it. Then maybe you can find true happiness through good mental health. And a positive outlook.

Sorry about your dad, but latching on to a guy, and making him your whole life and reason to live is not the proper way to deal with your problems. Nor is trying to end your life. He didn't make you become attached to him, you allowed yourself to be attached, and you can also unattach him. No excuses or oral sex to keep him. None of this is a healthy way to live.

Take responsibility and control over your life and actions and do better.

"oral sex? what you mean by that?"

You don't know what oral sex is? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_sex