Been with boyfriend for 3 yrs. The first year he asked me to marry him. From day one things were so wonderful. Then the 2nd year he started to change. Being distance no more cuddling, I asked if he was cheating. He said no, but my gut said yes. Later I found out he was and I forgave him to start fresh and wipe slate clean. He promised he wouldn't talk to her anymore.

4 months went by. She called him and he went outside, talked for an hour, and came in like nothing, and went to bed. I told him that was a slap in my face and that really hurt that he lied. He won't kiss, hug me or hold me. Sex is no longer exciting, he don't do foreplay anymore nothing. I try to talk cuddle or kiss him and I feel like I am with a wall, or a dead person. I get nothing back. But yet he says he loves me.

Any way she called again he went outside came in and said "its over its done, I told her not to call any more". I said why couldn't you say all that in front of me. He shows no feelings or emotions towards me. I told him that how do I really know he told her that? How do I know he's not talking to her or meeting her? I told him its hard to believe any thing. He's distance and cold. We use to talk about when we were getting married, he told everyone I was his wife. Then I went from wife to fiancé to girlfriend. We were like soul mates. We finished each other sentences. Knew what one was thinking. We were in tune it was word, now I don't know him.

Any more help what to do?

He is distant, he won't talk, he cheated, you dump him! He may say he loves you but his actions prove otherwise.