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I'm trying to get pregnet

Ok so the last two mounths me and my boyfriend try to make a baby and last month no period this month I had my period so what's rong. And I do smoke cigerts and some times marijuana does the marijuana have any efect to the trying to get pregnet

It can take several months and often years to fall pregnant.
The more you stress about it the less likely it is to happen..

My period this tine was heaver than usual that mean anything

So you want to get pregnet but you're smoking cigarettes and pot... are you planning on continuing this behavior when you do become pregnet? This is very irresponsible.

Both cigarettes and pot reduce fertility.

It also takes most couples an average of a year to get pregnant. Are you charting ovulation using basal body temperature?

Also... why are you willing to have a lifetime connection (a child) to this man without the best legal protections and stability in place for that child (marriage)?

I was smoking pot why I was trying ti get pregnet. I was wounderi. If smokin pot efects the pregnetcy

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Originally Posted by autumn mckinney

I was smoking pot why i was tryin ti get pregnet. I was wounderi. If smokin pot efects the pregnetcy

Yes, and it also affects spelling and grammar apparently.

Ok so should I try not smokin

You should:

1. Quit smoking pot
2. Quit smoking
3. See a doctor
4. Get married
5. Be in a happy marriage for at least a year
6. THEN think about bringing a baby into the world.

While you are doing those other things, it wouldn't hurt to go back to school and get a good education for yourself so that you can make the world a better place for any children you might have.

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Originally Posted by autumn mckinney

Ok so should i try not smokin

No, do not smoke pot. Or cigarettes. Or cigars. Take special vitamins to help your body get ready to be pregnant. Avoid junk food and sugar. Walk a lot. Have a savings account. Have a good and faithful husband. Make sure you have at least a high school education and diploma.

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Ok so should i try not smokin

DUH!!

Not only should you stop smoking, but you should not try to get pregnant for at least 3 months after you stop. It will take that long for the toxins to get out of your body.

Also before you bring a child into this world, it would behoove you to educate yourself better. Do you want your child to spell and speaks as poorly as you do?

And I echo Synnen's question. Why are you trying to create new life with your boyfriend if he's not willing to commit to marriage so you have legal protections for yourself and your child.

Frankly, I hope you don't get pregnant because you appear to immature and irresponsible to raise a child.

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Originally Posted by autumn mckinney

I was smoking pot why i was tryin ti get pregnet. I was wounderi. If smokin pot efects the pregnetcy

I agree with everyone else, you're not ready to have a child. Personally, when someone can't even spell pregnancy, I don't think they should be considering it.

So, here are the errors in this one post, I won't even try to correct the others.

"I was smoking pot why i was tryin ti get pregnet".

It reads like "I was smoking pot. Why was I trying to get pregnant?"

I wonder the same thing. Why are you trying while you're smoking pot?

Wounderi? Do you mean wondering?
Smokin = smoking
efects = effects
pregnetcy = pregnancy

Please, stop trying until you're ready to be a mother. It's common sense that smoking pot before and during pregnancy, is bad. You're very obviously not educated enough to bring a child into this world. Stop trying!

Ok so look none of you no if I'm marryed or have a hi school diploma you don't no nothing this page is stupid you judge before you even get to no someone so take this advice don't judge a book by it cover so I'm un subscribing to this page

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Originally Posted by autumn mckinney

Ok so look none of you no if I'm marryed or have a hi school diploma u don't no nothing this page is stupid you judge before u even get to no someone so take this advice don't judge a book by it cover so I'm un subscribing to this page

It's married, not marryed, and yes, we know you're not. How you ask?

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Ok so the last two mounths me and my bf try to make a baby

I'm married. Married people don't refer to their husband as their boyfriend.

As for the high school (not hi school) diploma. That's a no brainer. Here's why:

you is not a word
I'm = I'm
marryed = married
hi school = high school
u = you
don't = don't
no = know
nothing = nothing

I'll stop there, but there are other errors. My 10 year old writes better than this.

Good luck, especially to any child you conceive.

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you is not a word

Yes it is. We use it here down south to refer to "you guys." ;) With that said though, we usually put an apostrophe in it. i.e. y'all

To the OP. Go ahead, keep smoking pot. When you have your baby and you get tested for drugs at the hospital, and you pop a positive, sign your rights away when they take your baby away from you.

Thanks y'all for your advice

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Originally Posted by autumn mckinney

Thanks y'all for ur advice

*your.

Your isn't a word.

Good luck.

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Originally Posted by autumn mckinney

Ok so look none of yall no if im marryed or have a hi school diploma u dont no nothin this page is stupid yall judge before u even get to no someone so take this advice dont judge a book by it cover so im un subscribing to this page

You said "me and my bf", so yes, we assumed you aren't married. No one said you didn't have a HIGH SCHOOL diploma, just that your spelling and grammar are atrocious. We have to judge based on what you post, because that's the only thing we have to go on.

And no this page is not stupid, that's typical reaction. We tell you the truth, you don't like it so you strike back.

But we have told you the truth. Smoking, either tobacco or pot, can have a bad affect on a fetus. The only one being stupid is you by your actions.