Originally Posted by
Oliver2011
A couple of things...
Why are you so quick to get married? I might be jumping to conclusions here but you need to get to know these guys better before saying "I do".
Second as you stated your husband and you share two wonderful kids together. Regardless of what happens with your relationship you two will be forever connected because of those kids. So I see no issue clearing the air with him as long as it is productive. That means no finger pointing, no blaming, and just talk about what will be good for your children.