My boyfriend & I of 10 yrs have nothing in common. As of 5 months ago we don't talk, go out or have affectionate moments. He will try for sex but I want more & to add I've been rejecting sex for 2 months because he's lacking in financial responsibility. He works but doesn't contribute much. I do love him but don't know how to make us a successful team. Help?

What is the basis for your love? This sounds dismal to me. Are you just afraid to break up? Hanging on to something from long ago that isn't there anymore, hoping it will come back? Do you wish you were married, and there is no sign of that possibility? We can't guess out of the blue like this - you tell us!