Originally Posted by motherof3
Hello to all,
I was in a relationship for 7 years and had 2 kids 4, 5 my boyfriend cheated on me many many times and treated me really bad, he moved out but came back when he broke up with the last girl he cheated on me with. we are not together anymore, but a mutual friend who used to be our neighbor has been catching my eye, he comes over every now and again to say hi and the two of them go out once in a while. One night when I had to much to drink I called him asking if he wanted to see me. He said no he couldnt do that because of the situation, I called the next day and apologized to him and now we laugh it off. Last week he called me and said he thinks about me a lot but because of my babys father he doesnt make a move. Well me and the neighbor went out for a few drinks and went back to his place and kissed for a long time, we wanted to go further but because of the situation we didnt, we now find out we have deep feelings for each other but are not sure what to do. should we just stay friends because of the situation? or go with our feelings, I can't stop thinking about him.