I'm 15 in ninth grade and male. The girl I'm trying to get with is bi and already has a girlfriend. I live in the united states, Utah, Salt Lake City county, Midvale; and I'm at loss of what to do. Please help, I don't have much dating experience, I've had only one girlfriend and she liked me first, so I have never been on the offensive in dating.

She has a girlfriend so she is off limits to you. Move on. Find someone who is free, not dating someone else.

Future reference, if anybody else is going to tell me what Homegirl 50 just told me please refrain or if you must tell me then give advice on getting with a girl who's free. But prefer if you gave me advice on my original question, thank you.

Current reference... You can't say who answers or how you get answers.

Homegirl is right. She is taken so back off. How would you like it if you were with her and someone else came along and tried to steal her away from you? Same idea.

As for getting with someone else? Give it time.

What I was getting at is that I do not require multiple people telling me the same thing. That's just badgering me, and I don't and will not appreciate that. I understand she is taken, for other people who would like to answer please do not restate this fact. Thank you.

Look young guy, EVERYONE will tell you the same thing whether you want to hear it or not, and for future reference you have no choice or say in he responses you will get, or WHO responds.

That's just the way it is around here. Sorry if you feel badgered by the truth of the more experienced people. You don't just GET someone because YOU want them. Maybe they will share, ask her.