2004 honda civic ex auto transmission problem a whirling sound out of gear so when its in park or neutral when you put it into reverse it takes a little but to go in reverse and its slipping when its acculturating and it barely goes and also in drive gear what is the problem?

How is the fluid level?

Check the color and odor of the transmission fluid, too. It should be pink. If it's brown or black, with a burnt smell, the transmission likely needs to be rebuilt--the clutch packs may be shot. Hondas need to have the automatic transmission fluid changed every 30,000 miles.