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  • Apr 9, 2013, 07:03 PM
    CRachelle16
    Soulmate
    How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
  • Apr 9, 2013, 07:15 PM
    smoothy
    You just know...

    Sorry, no better way to explain it.
  • Apr 9, 2013, 08:03 PM
    lostandlonely51
    That's tricky because you just don't know, like most people say you do.. the person could be the most amazing person in the world and turn south right away.. take your time with them and really learn about who they are and what there about. Then after all that time and they haven't changed and understand you and love you. They are your soulmate
  • Apr 9, 2013, 08:05 PM
    odinn7
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by lostandlonely51 View Post
    thats tricky because you just dont know, like most people say you do.. the person could be the most amazing person in the world and turn south right away.. take your time with them and really learn about who they are and what there about. then after all that time and they havent changed and understand you and love you. they are your soulmate
    True...

    My "soulmate" tore my heart out and crapped all over it.
  • Apr 9, 2013, 08:19 PM
    lostandlonely51
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    True....

    My "soulmate" tore my heart out and crapped all over it.
    But once again odinn7 if they WERE your soulmate they wouldn't of hurt you like that
  • Apr 9, 2013, 08:36 PM
    talaniman
    When they have stood the test of time and reality, and you are old and still see them as young. Then you know they are your soul mate. Until then, don't be fooled by your own emotions and give them the title.
  • Apr 9, 2013, 08:41 PM
    lostandlonely51
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    When they have stood the test of time and reality, and you are old and still see them as young. Then you know they are your soul mate. Until then, don't be fooled by your own emotions and give them the title.

    I most def agree
  • Apr 10, 2013, 04:14 AM
    Oliver2011
    Smoothy beat me to it but I do believe you just know.
  • Apr 10, 2013, 05:08 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by lostandlonely51 View Post
    thats tricky because you just dont know, like most people say you do.. the person could be the most amazing person in the world and turn south right away.. take your time with them and really learn about who they are and what there about. then after all that time and they havent changed and understand you and love you. they are your soulmate
    Really.. My life experience is you most certainly do... because that one relationship is going to stand out far above all others you have ever had... no matter how good those others might have been.
    A soul mate is a near perfect natural fit... one you don't HAVE to work hard for. You instinctively know the other persons thoughts almost before they have them.
  • Apr 10, 2013, 05:21 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Do not believe there is any such thing, this assumes that a higher power or a god of some sort has made a person just for you, Seldom is this the case. The thing is, relatioinships take a lot of work and many do not do well. A relationship is only as good as the effort each person puts into it.
  • Apr 10, 2013, 05:23 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    Do not believe there is any such thing, this assumes that a higher power or a god of some sort has made a person just for you, Seldom is this the case. The thing is, relatioinships take a lot of work and many do not do well. A relationship is only as good as the effort each person puts into it.
    I know there is... because I've actually met one... (no it wasn't the one I married).

    Fact is most people never actually meet theirs (there might even be more than one out there)... and even if they do... it doesn't mean they are meant to be together... or even should be.
  • Apr 10, 2013, 05:31 AM
    talaniman
    Who says there can only be one soul mate in ones life? There may be millions.
  • Apr 10, 2013, 05:34 AM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Who says there can only be one soul mate in ones life? There may be millions.
    True, but I only needed the one.
  • Apr 10, 2013, 08:38 AM
    smkanand
    Yeah, please somebody answer that. How do we know?
  • Apr 10, 2013, 08:47 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by smkanand View Post
    yeah, please somebody answer that. how do we know?
    We did... read the posts...
  • Apr 10, 2013, 09:09 AM
    talaniman
    You don't, you feel so good and believe it or want to anyway, but reality changes things and often drastically. Hard to accept a soul mate hates you and wants to leave after a time, days, months, even years.

    So leave that soul mate crap out of the equation period. Deal with reality at all times. Then you will know.
  • Apr 10, 2013, 09:11 AM
    odinn7
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    You don't, you feel so good and believe it or want to anyway, but reality changes things and often drastically. hard to accept a soul mate hates you and wants to leave after a time, days, months, even years.

    So leave that soul mate crap out of the equation period. Deal with reality at all times. Then you will know.
    Perfectly said... this is what I was trying to convey when I said my soulmate tore my heart out and crapped on it. I learned from that.
  • Apr 10, 2013, 09:16 AM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    Perfectly said...this is what I was trying to convey when I said my soulmate tore my heart out and crapped on it. I learned from that.
    Is your soulmate a 67 Buick?
  • Apr 10, 2013, 09:18 AM
    JudyKayTee
    smkanand, this was answered. Did you read before posting?

    And I'm with FrChuck and others on this - I don't believe there's one soulmate.

    Relationships take time and work. And, yes, I have a soulmate somewhere out there. We simply couldn't make the relationship work. That doesn't mean we won't always care for each other. It just means he was my soulmate but not "the one."

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