Hii guys,

English isn't my first language. I moved to Australia 10 months ago and I want to break up with my boyfriend but I don't know how. I never broke up with anyone and don't know what words to use in English..

He is a really nice guy, but has no time for anything. He rather hang out in the holidays with his friends or himself. If I see him, its at parties of friends or at school. We are dating for 5 months now, but I don't know much about him. He doesn't talk much. Same as, he has no respect for me. At parties or school I don't even hold his hand. Cause he won't let me. All he want to touch is my boobs and..
I know I am going to hurt him in the end, but I don't want to be a total in the break up. How can I be gentle and breaking up..

Please help me!

How old are you both?

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

how old are you both?

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16

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Originally Posted by Zinds

16

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Just tell him that you care about him, but want to find someone who has the similar interests as you do. Also, you are quite young to be in a serious relationship. How is your schoolwork?

My dear you are too young to be worried about being in a serious relationship, what I can tell you is that you find it happeing when you older as well that sum guys or a lot of guys only care about getting you into bed but what you have to know is that you are better than that and you can find a guy that respects you and really loves you.

I suggest you just tell him what teacherJenn has said and try to have fun with friends and don't go looking for a guy because you might get 1 like him rather let that good guy find you while you focus on your school work and friends.

You don't have to spell out all the things that are wrong with him when you break up. You don't have to be gentle either. Most of the time (especially when you are young), you just say that you aren't happy with the relationship anymore. He sounds like someone who might not exactly take it hard.
If he does ask why, tell him what you just said here! He's just about your boobs and then goes to hang out with the guys. That's so immature. Teen boys often mature more slowly than girls.

If you are not seeing him except parties, then stop seeing him, don't even have to tell him, or text him and tell him you don't feel like being in a relationship.

You are trying way to hard to tell him something, just break up,