There is this senior guy in my school, a few months back I noticed him and I thought he was really cute, I started to develop a crush on him and now I really really like him! I've never spoken to him and I think the only thing he knows about me is my name. I want him to notice me because he is nearly all I think about and he is leaving school this year to go to university and I may not see him again. Help?!

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If you will never see him again, why bother?

How old are you? The way to get him to notice you would be to speak to him. You don't want to be doing dumb stuff just to get someone to notice you, but if he is going away to school soon, what is the point?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

If you will never see him again, why bother?

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Because if I don't then I will regret it!

The first thing you need to do is speak to him.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

How old are you? The way to get him to notice you would be to speak to him. You don't want to be doing dumb stuff just to get someone to notice you, but if he is going away to school soon, what is the point?

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I'm 15 he's 17, he's would still be living I'm the same town as me he just won't be going to the same school anymore !

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The first thing you need to do is speak to him.

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I would feel stupid if I did because I've never spoken to him before

Speak to him. Say hello every time you see him. If he does not notice you that way he is probably not interested.

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Originally Posted by Jennifer5xx

I would feel stupid if i did because I've never spoken to him before

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Well if you will feel stupid speaking to him, what do you think you could do that would not be stupid? If you don't want regrets, speak to the boy.

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Well if you will feel stupid speaking to him, what do you think you could do that would not be stupid? If you don't want regrets, speak to the boy.

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What about doing it on Facebook?

How do I speak to the guy of my dreams?

But I want him to make the first move! He is so perfect and like everything I want in a guy I just don't know how to talk to him?

You want to talk to him (he hasn't talked to you) but you don't want that to be the first move.

I find that confusing but depending on your age and where you see him, make a casual comment about something mutual - weather, classes, cars - and see where it goes.

Just out of curiosity, what is there about him that makes him the man of your dreams?

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What about doing it on facebook?

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Nope. It has to be in person.

Meeting somebody on face book is not good. You think he'll notice you there?
Go up and speak to him. What would you do send a friend request and chat on line, that is if he even wants to chat? Speak to him in person, this way he knows who you are and you won't be tempted to say foolish things to get his attention.

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You want to talk to him (he hasn't talked to you) but you don't want that to be the first move.

I find that confusing but depending on your age and where you see him, make a casual comment about something mutual - weather, classes, cars - and see where it goes.

Just out of curiosity, what is there about him that makes him the man of your dreams?

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He is completely my type and just everything about him gives me butterflies

Why is he "your" type, and what about him is there.

But at some point you need to move this to real life, or it will be one of a dozen people you will find and do nothing.

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why is he "your" type, and what about him is there.

But at some point you need to move this to real life, or it will be one of a dozen people you will find and do nothing.

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Okay thanks for your help :)

I've known this guy for a while now, not personly, and I have a big crush on him. The only problem is the only thing he knows about me is my name and we have never spoken before. How do I get him to notice me so I don't have to make the first move?

There is this guy I know, not personally, and I've known him for a while because he goes to the same school as me, he is a senior, and I'm in 4th year. I started a while back getting a crush on him and I still do the only thing is, the only thing he knows about me is my name and we have never spoken. I really want to know how to get him to notice me so I don't have to make the first move?

You don't... if he liked what he saw... you couldn't stop him from "noticing you".

Seriously... spend your time looking for people that naturally gravitate to you... you are wasting your time trying to make people interested that don't have an interest to begin with.

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You don't.....if he liked what he saw....you couldn't stop him from "noticing you".

Seriously...spend your time looking for people that naturally gravitate to you.....you are wasting your time trying to make people interested that don't have an interest to begin with.

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But that's what I'm asking, I haven't exactly made myself known to him how do I without sounding like a flirt?

You really shouldn't really HAVE to is the point I was trying to get across.

If its right.. you will gravitate to each other without having to work at it... anything you have to convince someone they want... they really don't want in the first place and will come back to that realization at some point again.

That's a lesson that takes some people years to understand... years they will never get back. Trust me... because I was one of those people.

Set your hair on fire?
No, you say hi using his name, as you walk by. Don't do it coyly or hesitatingly, but with a normal smile.
Do it maybe 3 or 4 times over a week, each time you go by. If he is interested he will stop to talk or at least say hi back, and you can tell a lot from a hi.