Okay so I've been best friend with this girl for over a year now we had our ups and down, but at a point we were closer than ever. Then one day everything changed she stopped talking to me (SMS) even in school we walk by each other it's like she doesn't even know me.

She's found someone else she is really close with. Last year she was fake liking her but it seems like that girl replaced me and I always thought I'd be her number one she'd come to me when she needs advice or whatever. She's showing the world she adores her while when we were close she did nothing. I don't know what to do anymore. I got to admit I am kind of jealous. I mean like I don't want to lose her especially not to that girl.

What should I do?

You should ignore your EX best friend and make new friends, that are better and more loyal, and no need to be jealous, because you no longer have to worry about this person again.

Sorry things didn't work the way you wanted them to. It happens in life so put this behind you and waste no more time on it.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

You should ignore your EX best friend and make new friends, that are better and more loyal, and no need to be jealous, because you no longer have to worry about this person again.

Sorry things didn't work the way you wanted them to. It happens in life so put this behind you and waste no more time on it.

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Yeah maybe your right thanks ;) it will be hard but I know ill get through it...

Try and get over it. It's happened to me, and it's hard, but don't take it badly. Try and make other mates and stay cool, you don't want to show any weaknesses. Thsat can make you a target. Xx good luck xx

Okay so... everything is going in the way I want.. but one thing me and my best friend haven't been so close lately,she's been closer to this other girl witch she hates so much last year.. I tried everything making her jealous (not a good idea) like EVERYTHING,but for her its working out her making me jealous because well.. she is the MS.POPULARgirl in school so everyone follows her like her little dog.. and like I can't compete with that.and if your wondering if have found other friends,yes I did and they live in my neighborhood.. same as my best friend.. I want her to realize that she has changes a lot.. im not saying I didn't I did.. and that you gave up on someone that IS willing to do ANYTHING for her.. anyone can give me a good text how to tell her this? Thanks xoxo <3

Hello again. Its natural to try and correct what you feel is a wrong, but sometime its best NOT to and just let your friend walk behind Miss popular and figure it out for herself. I know this is still bothering you, but again, accept it and leave it alone.

You would probably make things worse trying to help some one that doesn't want your help or advice.

Hey,so me and my best friend fought we haven't talked in weeks.. she got closer to other people same as me.. so today she came to me and told me that she wanted to talk about our friendship and stuff.I got to admit put the blame all on me I made the probleme.. but then she forgot about me that easily now honestly I don't trust her as much as before.. when I ignore her she comes to me I don't know what should I do should I fix it or keep on ignoring her or just act normal.. I really do miss her but I got used to it and I'm kind of jealous to the girl she is close with but whatever I found my own as well so HELP PLEASE I really need it

Just act normal.

Hey guys, me and my best friends aren’t so close anymore in fact we aren’t even friends, but the thing is she lives in my neighborhood and like we often see each other and it’s kind of weird. I lost her to someone I HATE so much and that she hated her. It’s ****ed up I know they are like so close and I’m kind of jealous I mean even though we aren’t friends anymore. Like please she’s still mine. Every time I see her with someone I’m sad. Jealous wishing it could be me. I miss her hugs. Her smell. Our stupid crazy stuff we do together. Everything.

But the thing that is hurting me the most is that it seems she doesn’t miss me. Like I don’t exist or something. Like she’s happy without me. I pretend to do that the same but I’m always wishing I could be with her too. I mean I made a couple of new friends and I love them. But she is one special girl. We both made huge mistakes that slowly made us fade apart. We tried fighting it, didn’t help much. I want to tell her I miss her. I can’t live without her. But I don’t want to show her I’m depressed like I need her which I do. Yes I may have said that I don’t want to be her friend anymore but it’s just because I was mad, sad... all I need is my sister back.

Something great happened for me today I wanted to tell her but then I remembered we don’t talk anymore. And here I started crying. Cheesy but true. All I know is her 'best friend' now, if someone would pay her to betray her she would do it but if someone told me I could meet Justin Beiber and betray her I wouldn’t and you guys should know Justin is my everything. And that’s how much I love and care for her.

Should I tell her? Try to move on? What should I do?

So this sounds like more of the same stuff that you keep posting about...

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...em-742937.html

Why don't you just get it over with and talk to her? What's the worst that can happen?

The stated fact that you are a "belieber" makes me think you are VERY young.

Here's your first incorrect thought - "shes still mine". People no longer own people. She never belonged to you.

Move on - and please stop opening new threads.

Your fixating over this girl is not normal. She has another friend, maybe this possessiveness of yours is why she is no longer your friend.
Get over this and leave her alone.