I've been with my boyfriend a little under 2 years. He moved to another state to be with me and recently we moved back to his home state so he could be closer to family. For the most part the relationship is good but lately, our sex life has really dropped off.I've tried talking to him about it and he says it will get better. Recently I caught him on porn sites and I even think that I walked in on him about to masterbate once. This is really starting to be a serious issue. I have questioned him, and asked if it was me; and he says no it's something going with him, "so stop worrying. I can't fix something if I don't know what the problem is. This is making insecure, jealous, and left with a lot of unanswered questions. Of course any little thing he does now is going to make me think he's up to something. He's a good guy, a good provider, and tells me everyday that he loves me. Do I have something to worry about. Although not often I have seen him looking at other women. I do attract other men and I don't question whether I'm attractive but I need to be sure that indeed he's going through something and it has nothing to do with me. Or does it.. I honestly don't know... I need some answers. I tried to talk to him and I get very generic answers...

Try something new with him. try guys something you didn't try it before , like a new positions or a new strategy even a new place or a new perfume or new under ware just a new stuff , and if it doesn't work, he might be a chronic masturbator I'm not sure

He sounds somewhat disinterested. Often times problems within the relationship might be causing him to feel distant. You might want to step back and honestly see if there are problems within the relationship that might be causing his lack of interest. Porn isn't the issue, he has urges, you just want him to channel those urges towards you.

I think that these things happen and it doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you or doesn't love you. Sometimes things just get a little down but in time it will get better. Enjoy the rest of the relationship and don't be so hard on yourself.

"try something new with him ., try guys something you didn't try it before , like a new positions or a new strategy even a new place or a new perfume or new under ware just a new stuff , and if it doesn't work ,, he might be a chronic masturbator i'm not sure"

Where am I not seeing that he watches porn and masturbates?