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  • Mar 20, 2007, 02:15 PM
    spellcaster07
    Lustful Husband Or Just A Dumb
    Ok about 2 months ago my husband , told me that 2 married co-workers were having relations shall I say . Well last week the male co-workers wife found out and left him , took everything , dog , car , and he has to split the house with her..

    Now I said to my husband I can't believe he was willing to loose everything to have sex with some hoe . And he said , well she (the hoe) is young and has a ting little waiste so you know she has a tight little *****...

    The hoe is 22 , the wife was 31 , the dude is 33
    My husband is 35 , I'm 30.. I have had 3 kids..

    Now this just makes me think he was looking at this girl thinking , hmm like to get in there and then how stupid to tell his wife... Then if that doesn't piss me off enough

    He goes on to talk about this fat girl that works there . She works in the office he works in the shop... she is always in the shop.. for what I think but OK...

    He says she was down in the shop on Friday talking to a bunch of the drives and he went over and said to her " O these guys will get you in trouble " then she giggled and flipped her her back... I SEE THIS AND THE TWO OF THEM FLIRTING WITH EACH OTHER..

    He didn't walk over and say hey don't you have jobs to do.. or break time is over folks

    After all this please just let me know if you think I'm crazy jealous like a guard dog.. or if it seems like he is looking for some strange...
  • Mar 20, 2007, 02:30 PM
    shygrneyzs
    I hate to say this but he is being a guy. That does not excuse the sexual content of the conversations at work - if the women really got ticked off sometime, they would be the first ones yelling sexual harassment. Your husband should take the cue from his male co worker who is losing his assets - it could happen to him too if he is not careful.

    I guess I would listen to him and have the conversation that what he tells you makes you wonder about his own intentions with the women at work. There is no need to be jealous as of yet - he has done nothing to show he has done anything wrong, except making the sexual remarks. Women make those remarks too. I guess it comes to the old saying, "look but don't touch". A man or a woman can appreciate how another person looks or dresses - does not mean they will jump into bed with that person.

    If your husband would continue to come home and make the sexual remarks about the women in his workplace, I would ask what his point is. Tell him how that makes you feel and ask how he would feel if you did that, about men you knew. The shoe goes on the other foot, so to speak.

    But right now, I would not get upset and I would let it roll off me. Maybe he is looking for your reaction, to see if you are jealous.
  • Mar 20, 2007, 02:57 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Yes he was talking like he would to the guys at the bar,

    So personal opinino he was just being stupid.
  • Mar 20, 2007, 03:52 PM
    Wildcat21
    That is REALLY disrespectful of your husband. Is he that dumb??
  • Mar 20, 2007, 04:09 PM
    talaniman
    Relax he has nothing else to talk about obviously.
  • Mar 20, 2007, 05:13 PM
    Skell
    Don't read into it too much. It is better that he is honest with you and is comfortable enough with your relationship to be open about what he thinks rather than hide them and lie and be dishonest with you.

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