So I meet this girl and she ends up with a friend of mine and they didn't work out but while she was with my friend I hooked up with her sister and now this girl and myself started dating and she found out that I was with her I never told her but when she found out I was honest and told her the truth so I wasn't lying to her and now she says she needs time to think and broke up with me all that was in the past.

Was I wrong? What do I do? I really like her and want to be with her any ideas?

You were not wrong to be honest. How she deals with it is up to her, so back off and let her figure it out for herself. How old are the both of you? I have to tell you though, flip flopping back and forth with females that know each other, let alone sisters is very difficult. Sometimes nothing is the best thing to do for the time being and see what happens later.

You can hope for the best, but plan for the worst in situations like this.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

You were not wrong to be honest. How she deals with it is up to her so back off and let her figure it out for herself. How old are the both of you?

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She is 23 and I'm 27 and she said she just wants to be friends and so far I have only talked to her 3 times and now it's like she has nothing to say and wants nothing to do with me and when we were talking she said that she wants to get to know me more and work things out so I have been doing all I can to talk with her be open and make things work and she isn't wanting to put any effort Into anything

Going from one sister to another seldom works out well. Matter of fact, it can be a disaster.

And whatever happens to her sister? It doesn't affect you but it does affect her. I think you messed it up. Leave the descion on her.

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Originally Posted by smkanand

and whatever happens to her sister? it doesn't affect you but it does affect her. I think you messed it up. leave the descion on her.

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Well I guess I will have to wait and see what happens thank u for the info and talking

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Going from one sister to another seldom works out well. Matter of fact, it can be a disaster.

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And really I don't think I'm going from one to the other the older sister is in rehab and even told her sister that she isn't into me like that we had a fun night a few years ago when me and the older sister even meet and the younger one was in a relationship and then she sees me and want to get together with me so we did and I really forgot about her sister until I was confronted about it

May not be a big deal to you, but obviously it's a huge deal to her. Respect that and adjust your expectations greatly.

This looks like a brick wall to me, and I wouldn't have high hopes or put my life on hold with a female that's put you in the friend zone already.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

May not be a big deal to you, but obviously its a huge deal to her. Respect that and adjust your expectations greatly.

This looks like a brick wall to me, and I wouldn't have high hopes or put my life on hold with a female thats put you in the friend zone already.

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Well I guess I will find out soon I hope lol thanks for the info