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  • Mar 25, 2013, 03:37 AM
    Kaitlyn Carter
    Abortion
    I had an abortion 2 days ago and then me and my partner had sex the day after but he pulled out, and yes I know I shouldn't have and I was just upset and grieving and scared. What could happen? And could this prevent me from ever becoming pregnant again?
  • Mar 25, 2013, 04:38 AM
    tickle
    Silly thing to do, dangerous as far as infection goes. I don't know what to say to you other then see your doctor again and ask if you should have a D&C (curetage) or depending on what type of abortion you had, that may have been included. If the abortion was a complete clean out of your uterus then you could be pregnant because your uterus was completely clean and vulnerable. The fact that he pulled out means nothing.
  • Mar 25, 2013, 04:46 AM
    Kaitlyn Carter
    I know it was very stupid of me and I don't know what I was thinking but thanks for the advise.
  • Mar 25, 2013, 04:51 AM
    Kaitlyn Carter
    One other thing, I was told a week before having sex again and he used a serange tool to take it out and I'm scared and I was jw what you or anyone had to say about that?
  • Apr 1, 2013, 10:18 AM
    Kaitlyn Carter
    What are the odds?
    I had an abortion over a week ago and I've had sex and I just recently got on birth control, he's in me twice and I was jw what are my odds of being pregnant and when should take a test?
  • Apr 1, 2013, 10:19 AM
    Curlyben
    It's either YES or NO, there aren't any "odds"
  • Apr 1, 2013, 10:25 AM
    Kaitlyn Carter
    Yeah but when do I take a test to know for sure?
  • Apr 1, 2013, 12:14 PM
    Kaitlyn Carter
    Hpt
    When do I take a hpt after an abortion a week ago, having sex almost every day and just started my BC pill and my finace has not pulled out twice?
  • Apr 1, 2013, 12:16 PM
    smoothy
    Pulling out isn't birth control

    EVER.


    Also... Birth control pills aren't 100% effective even when taken correctly... nor is the morning after pill.

    YOu have to wait until your period is at least two weeks late before you take a HPT... or you are wasting your time and money. You also MUST take it the first thing in the moring the first time you pee... or you are wasteing your time and money.
  • Apr 1, 2013, 12:33 PM
    Kaitlyn Carter
    Well see since I just had an abortion, I've had bleeding and its suppose to last up to 6 weeks how do I know when my regular period will come and that's why I'm asking when I should take it.*
  • Apr 1, 2013, 12:34 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kaitlyn Carter View Post
    Well see since I just had an abortion, I've had bleeding and its suppose to last up to 6 weeks how do I know when my regular period will come and that's why I'm asking when I should take it.*

    Figure 6 weeks after your last period was...
  • Apr 1, 2013, 12:37 PM
    JudyKayTee
    I think the OP is trying to get pregnant for her own reasons - no one who has had an abortion and suffered over the decision behaves in this fashion.

    Her boyfriend obviously also doesn't care.

    She needs to speak to the abortion Doctor and ask some straight forward questions.

    Today's answer will be followed by the same question next month and every month thereafter when she doesn't take precautions, doesn't take them properly and/or is careless.
  • Apr 1, 2013, 12:43 PM
    Kaitlyn Carter
    Well see my last actual period was February 1st. I had my abortion on march 23rd. And I've had bleeding ever since, I don't know when it would actually be accurate?
  • Apr 1, 2013, 01:59 PM
    JudyKayTee
    When what would be accurate? A HPT? Ask your local Pharmacist to recommend a kit and use it per the directions.

    Or - as I said - call the Doctor who performed the abortion.

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