Hello, I had my son June 10th, 2012 I had the depo
Shot two days after I delivered. My husband and I are trying to conceive again but I have bled like crazy since I had my son and I only stop or a couple days. I am taking prenatal vitamins and trying to use the ovulation test but still nothing. Please give me some info on how I can get pregnant again! PLEASE HELP

You have had almost constantly bleeding since June 2012? What does your Physician say?

Yes since then, my dr wanted to put me on the pill to regulate the bleeding but I want another child so I don't want to do that. Also I have no medical insurance so I can't just afford to pay $1000 of dollars to be seen

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Originally Posted by Cbrooke5a

Yes since then, my dr wanted to put me on the pill to regulate the bleeding but I want another child so I don't want to do that. Also I have no medical insurance so I can't just afford to pay $1000 of dollars to be seen

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Why would it cost thousands of dollars to be seen by a doctor? If you can't afford to see a doctor, are there free clinics in your area? You need to be examined by a doctor. We can't diagnose here.

You can't afford to see your doctor, but you're planning on having another child? If you can't afford $250 to be seen by your doctor (I'm assuming you're in the US) then how will you afford $12,000 plus just to deliver a baby? How will you afford the monthly doctors visits while you're pregnant? How will you afford to care for another baby?

Maybe it's not the time to get pregnant, since you can't even afford one doctors visit.

Just saying.

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Originally Posted by Alty

You can't afford to see your doctor, but you're planning on having another child? If you can't afford $250 to be seen by your doctor (I'm assuming you're in the US) then how will you afford $12,000 plus just to deliver a baby? How will you afford the monthly doctors visits while you're pregnant? How will you afford to care for another baby?

Maybe it's not the time to get pregnant, since you can't even afford one doctors visit.

Just sayin.

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Lets get some things straight, I didn't want smart comments on here I wanted help! And I have seen a dr and the exams they want to perform have to be paid upfront, and that's thousands of dollars so know what your talking about first OK! Also I already have a child that is WELL taken care of I have plenty of money for another I just need tips on how to he to pregnant again not some rude comments

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Originally Posted by Cbrooke5a

Lets get some things straight, I didn't want smart comments on here I wanted help! And i have seen a dr and the exams they want to perform have to be paid upfront, and that's thousands of dollars so know what ur talking about first ok!? Also I already have a child that is WELL taken care of I have plenty of money for another I just need tips on how to he to pregnant again not some rude comments

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I wasn't being rude at all. The fact is, we can't diagnose online, not even a doctor can do that, and there are no doctors on this site. So what exactly did you expect us to say? Good luck? Sucks to be you? Boy, I hope you're going to be okay?

We can't tell you what's going on, only a doctor can do that. Frankly, bleeding for this long is a sign that something is wrong. I'd use some of the money that you claim to have to see your doctor, have the tests done, and figure out what's wrong.

Your body is not ready to have another child. You need to figure out what's medically going on to cause you to bleed consistently for this long. If that's not worth the money you have, I don't know what is. Don't you want to be around to watch your children grow up? I know that's pretty darn important to me.

When you posted you said you couldn't afford to go to the doctor. After I posted that you can't afford another child if you can't afford a doctor, you suddenly have tons of money, but you refuse to spend it on your own health. So which is it? Either you can't afford to go to the doctor, which means you can't afford another child, or you can afford it but you just don't care if you're bleeding all day every day since 2012!

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Originally Posted by Cbrooke5a

Lets get some things straight, I didn't want smart comments on here I wanted help! And i have seen a dr and the exams they want to perform have to be paid upfront, and that's thousands of dollars so know what ur talking about first ok!? Also I already have a child that is WELL taken care of I have plenty of money for another I just need tips on how to he to pregnant again not some rude comments

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I asked you a different set of questions, but I'm commenting on your attitude. If you don't give us all the information, we don't know it. I can hardly believe you would attempt to have a child if the doctor recommended tests to find out why you are bleeding.

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Originally Posted by Alty

I wasn't being rude at all. The fact is, we can't diagnose online, not even a doctor can do that, and there are no doctors on this site. So what exactly did you expect us to say? Good luck? Sucks to be you? Boy, I hope you're going to be okay?

We can't tell you what's going on, only a doctor can do that. Frankly, bleeding for this long is a sign that something is wrong. I'd use some of the money that you claim to have to see your doctor, have the tests done, and figure out what's wrong.

Your body is not ready to have another child. You need to figure out what's medically going on to cause you to bleed consistently for this long. If that's not worth the money you have, I don't know what is. Don't you want to be around to watch your children grow up? I know that's pretty darn important to me.

When you posted you said you couldn't afford to go to the doctor. After I posted that you can't afford another child if you can't afford a doctor, you suddenly have tons of money, but you refuse to spend it on your own health. So which is it? Either you can't afford to go to the doctor, which means you can't afford another child, or you can afford it but you just don't care if you're bleeding all day every day since 2012!

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Out of greenies but that's spot on given the information she provided to us in this thread.

There is a huge difference between not having the money and having it but being too cheap to spend it.

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

I asked you a different set of questions, but I'm commenting on your attitude. If you don't give us all the information, we don't know it. I can hardly believe you would attempt to have a child if the doctor recommended tests to find out why you are bleeding.

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Exactly! I also want to point out that in her first posts she stated that she can't afford to go to the doctor. Now she suddenly has tons of money, but she's not going to the doctor anyway. Why?

Constant bleeding for almost a year is a good reason to see your doctor, even if it costs a few thousand dollars, especially since you claim to have the money. Unless of course you don't give a darn whether you survive to raise the children you're so desperate to have.

I find it very telling that when I mentioned that she can't afford another child if she can't afford to see a doctor about this bleeding, I'm rude, and she suddenly has tons of money. Did I hit a nerve? You bet I did! I told her what she didn't want to hear, that wanting something doesn't always make it the right thing to do. That you do have to think ahead. Children aren't property, they aren't a right. If you can't afford to take care of them, you shouldn't have them. If you can't afford to go to the doctor, you can't afford to have a child. That's the bottom line.

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Originally Posted by Alty

Exactly! I also want to point out that in her first posts she stated that she can't afford to go to the doctor. Now she suddenly has tons of money, but she's not going to the doctor anyway. Why?

Constant bleeding for almost a year is a good reason to see your doctor, even if it costs a few thousand dollars, especially since you claim to have the money. Unless of course you don't give a darn whether or not you survive to raise the children you're so desperate to have.

I find it very telling that when I mentioned that she can't afford another child if she can't afford to see a doctor about this bleeding, I'm rude, and she suddenly has tons of money. Did I hit a nerve? You bet I did! I told her what she didn't want to hear, that wanting something doesn't always make it the right thing to do. That you do have to think ahead. Children aren't property, they aren't a right. If you can't afford to take care of them, you shouldn't have them. If you can't afford to go to the doctor, you can't afford to have a child. That's the bottom line.

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You made great points!! It's amazing how the story changed once you posted your answer...

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

You made great points!!!!! It's amazing how the story changed once you posted your answer.....

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The story always changes once they're told the truth. Most people don't post here wanting to hear the truth. They want the sugar coated version of what they want to hear. They want someone to tell them that they're right, they should do what they want.

Those people that come back with the "You're rude" posts, are always easy to figure out. It means I hit the nail on the head, and they don't want to hear it. They want what they want, not the facts, not the truth. Anyone that points out the truth and facts, is the enemy.

So they change the story, lie, hoping that someone else will tell them what they want to hear based on their new story.

I don't know why they bother.

Here's the facts. It doesn't matter what I think. Do I think you're a fool for not going to the doctor? Yes. Do I think you can afford to have another child? Not if you can't afford to go to the doctor over something as serious as what you described. Do I think you have tons of money? No. Why? Well, if you had tons of money, you're constantly bleeding since June of 2012, but you refuse to see a doctor, then you really are a fool.

So you're either a fool, or you're broke. Nothing wrong with being broke. Many of us are, including me. But, I'm not trying to get pregnant, bring another child into the world, when I can't even afford a few tests to ensure my own health.

What if your baby gets sick? Would you spend the money then?