I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and the last 2 our sex life has been very little.we have not had sex in the last 8 months. He says he loves me but I don't know. And let me just say on his behalf that I started having some heart trouble but I'm seeing a doctor and I'm a meds. I think it's just BS!! How can I know??

For the record I very much don't think 14-year olds have a place answering questions on adult sexuality boards.

Would your boyfriend agree to seeing his Physician with you? This very well could be a physical problem. Would you agree to him seeing your Physician with you? If you have heart problems he may very well be concerned that sex may be too strenuous for you.

My late husband was a cardiac patient. I know the concerns.

Have you talked to him without being accusatory or demanding? Any type of sexual disfunction appears to be very difficult for men to talk about.