I don't understand. My girlfriend used to be so active and fun. We're together now for 9 months and it looks like he doesn't want to do anything fun. She just wants to be with me, sitting on a couch. I like that too, but sometimes I want to do silly stuff with her, like playing pranks on our friends, or going out but somehow she always "it's something we shouldn't be doing for our age" or "you're so childish." What happened? I remember she used to be different, her friends keep telling me she changed as well, in a very negative way.