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Pregnancy, please help

Me and my girlfriend just had sex for the first time,we had unprotected sex for about 5 minutes then put a come om on, I never ejaculated that day and even used the washroom before that, she gave me a bj and then we started, is it possible for her to have gotten pregnant?

If you had unprotected sex, absolutely!

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

If you had unprotected sex, absolutely!

Could you express your answer in terms of how possible it may be?

"unprotected sex for about 5 minutes" could be 100% possible. The "precautions" you took with the urinating and bj mean nothing.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

"unprotected sex for about 5 minutes" could be 100% possible. The "precautions" you took with the urinating and bj mean nothing.

Thanks for your time, as well as your honesty

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Originally Posted by thatguy12343

Thanks for your time, as well as your honesty

Please use your library card to check out some helpful books at your public library, 612.6 and thereafter. You and she really need to educate yourselves. And if you don't want a baby to interfere with future plans for higher education and financial stability, please don't have sex. Even with THREE methods of birth control being used, several long-time members of this site have become parents.

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Originally Posted by thatguy12343

Could you express your answer in terms of how possible it may be?

Very possible. Did you think about parenthood before you had sex?

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

Very possible. Did you think about parenthood before you had sex?

We both considered the possibility and while it definitely not part of our plans, we aren't completely against parenthood

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Originally Posted by thatguy12343

We both considered the possibility and while it definitely not part of our plans, we aren't completely against parenthood

You better read up about it now, because it's a possibility!

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we had unprotected sex for about 5 minutes

There's a reason it's called unprotected sex, because you're not protected. Even if you didn't ejaculate, there's more than enough sperm in pre-ejaculate to get the job done.

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then put a come om on,

First, it's condom. Second, that's like taking the bullets out of the gun after you've been shooting at people. Too late.

Why do you think you can wait until the end to put a condom on and even be remotely safe?. She can get pregnant the instant you start to have sex...

Now you have to wait and see.

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Originally Posted by Alty

There's a reason it's called unprotected sex, because you're not protected. Even if you didn't ejaculate, there's more than enough sperm in pre-ejaculate to get the job done.

First, it's condom. Second, that's like taking the bullets out of the gun after you've been shooting at people. Too late.

Auto correct I'm sorry meant condom.

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Originally Posted by thatguy12343

Auto correct I'm sorry meant condom.

No problem. It gave me a laugh, and I really needed a laugh. :)

Would have been even funnier if it auto corrected to "come on". But such is life.

But, to get back to the subject at hand, any time you have sex, even if you use protection, even if you use 3 different forms of protection, pregnancy is possible. There are women on this site, and all over the world, that use three different forms of birth control, all used correctly, and still became pregnant. It happens every day.

You didn't use the condom correctly. You had unprotected sex before putting the condom on. Now you get to play the waiting game. Wait until her period is due. If she misses it, wait two weeks and then test using first morning urine. If that test is negative, wait until her next period and if she misses it, test again or get a blood test.

If you both dodge the bullet and she gets her period, learn from this mistake. If you're not ready to be a parent, you shouldn't be having sex. But, if you choose to have sex anyway, at least use the protection available, properly. Condoms are the least reliable form of birth control out there, even when used properly.

Let's hope this isn't a life changing lesson to learn.

Good luck.

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Originally Posted by Alty

No problem. It gave me a laugh, and I really needed a laugh. :)

Would have been even funnier if it auto corrected to "come on". But such is life.

But, to get back to the subject at hand, any time you have sex, even if you use protection, even if you use 3 different forms of protection, pregnancy is possible. There are women on this site, and all over the world, that use three different forms of birth control, all used correctly, and still became pregnant. It happens every day.

You didn't use the condom correctly. You had unprotected sex before putting the condom on. Now you get to play the waiting game. Wait until her period is due. If she misses it, wait two weeks and then test using first morning urine. If that test is negative, wait until her next period and if she misses it, test again or get a blood test.

If you both dodge the bullet and she gets her period, learn from this mistake. If you're not ready to be a parent, you shouldn't be having sex. But, if you choose to have sex anyway, at least use the protection available, properly. Condoms are the least reliable form of birth control out there, even when used properly.

Let's hope this isn't a life changing lesson to learn.

Good luck.

Thank you so much,I'm deeply thankful for your support

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Originally Posted by Alty

No problem. It gave me a laugh, and I really needed a laugh. :)

Would have been even funnier if it auto corrected to "come on". But such is life.

But, to get back to the subject at hand, any time you have sex, even if you use protection, even if you use 3 different forms of protection, pregnancy is possible. There are women on this site, and all over the world, that use three different forms of birth control, all used correctly, and still became pregnant. It happens every day.

You didn't use the condom correctly. You had unprotected sex before putting the condom on. Now you get to play the waiting game. Wait until her period is due. If she misses it, wait two weeks and then test using first morning urine. If that test is negative, wait until her next period and if she misses it, test again or get a blood test.

If you both dodge the bullet and she gets her period, learn from this mistake. If you're not ready to be a parent, you shouldn't be having sex. But, if you choose to have sex anyway, at least use the protection available, properly. Condoms are the least reliable form of birth control out there, even when used properly.

Let's hope this isn't a life changing lesson to learn.

Good luck.

Sorry for the double post, but when would be a good time to use the urine test? Her periods don't arrive spot on most of the time, ranging a little from time to time. Would a week be OK?

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Originally Posted by thatguy12343

Sorry for the double post, but when would be a good time to use the urine test? Her periods don't arrive spot on most of the time, ranging a little from time to time. Would a week be ok?

A week from when you two had sex?

No, that wouldn't be okay. Do you know how pregnancy works? A week after sex she wouldn't even be officially pregnant.

The G Spot - How Pregnancy Happens - For Planned Parenthood - YouTube

Here's a great video explaining exactly what happens when pregnancy occurs.