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  • Mar 13, 2013, 08:06 AM
    laughing_me
    How do I get my ex back without me being the one to call him?
    We broke up because he thought I was cheating. He fell in love with me a lot sooner then I did so I know his emotions are stronger. I want him back but I don't want to call him because I already explained to him that I didn't cheat on him!
  • Mar 13, 2013, 08:11 AM
    joypulv
    What are your options?
    1. Ask him back anyway.
    2. Get someone else to ask him.
    3 - 1,000. Hire a poet to go to his house, or a skywriting plane to say 'I want you back' or 3 beautiful girls to sing under his window. Etc etc etc.
    1,001. Give up.
    Which do you prefer? We can't tell you what to do, and have very little background about either of you to go on.
  • Mar 13, 2013, 08:48 AM
    laughing_me
    A girl that likes him made a fake Facebook profile of another girl and a fake profile of a friend of mine... She made it seem likemy friend was telling her that we hooked up! She then gave my ex the password to this account and that's how he came to the conclusion that I was being unfaithfull.

    My real friends prifile was blocked so I told him to unblock him and that if his picture poped up in the messages, then it was him but if it didn't, then it was just her trying to make me look bad... He unblocked him and just like I though, his picture didn't pop up wich only meant that it wasn't him writing all that stuff!

    Then the girl that likes him told him that my friend had two profiles and he believed her...

    Now I want him back but I don't want to be the one to call/text him beacause he is the one that messed up here..

    Is there a way I can get his attention so he can contact me?
  • Mar 13, 2013, 09:34 AM
    talaniman
    Leave him, alone and let his dumb butt see the truth for himself, and come back on his own. If he is so easily fooled, and believes others before he believes YOU, and dumps you, that's 3 strikes against him isn't it?

    He should be out!!
  • Mar 13, 2013, 10:05 AM
    smkanand
    Nothing wrong in approaching the person you love, If you told him, talk one more time to him. Don't be less in making efforts, you will not regret that you haven't tried. If he still don't get it then leave him.
  • Mar 13, 2013, 12:11 PM
    joypulv
    'Is there a way I can get his attention so he can contact me?'

    That makes not one shred of sense, sorry. There are countless ways to get someone's attention and he already knows he can contact you. You aren't lost, you didn't move, I don't get what you are even asking. I already told you that you can contact him directly, through someone else, or not at all. Those are your choices!
    If you live in a world of Facebook shenanigans, then that's a sorry life. I'm on Facebook every day and never go through that foolishness.
  • Mar 14, 2013, 12:24 AM
    ArmstrongMiller
    You or he will be the initiator. Maybe you will be the first one if you want.
  • Mar 14, 2013, 02:10 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Unless this is Jr High school, and it sounds like it, with the games everyone is playing and Facebook being the reason for a break up, you talk, it does not matter who calls first, if pride will not allow you to call, you don't really want him back very bad

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