My cousin died at the age of 12, he only died 11 mounths ago...
When I go to bed at night around 11.30 latest 11.45, I see a shadow that walks around my room and the shadow looks just like him... Its not coming near me or anything its just sitting on my wooden chair... Me and my cousin were really close.
Im only 11 myself, and like I'm not afraid I just need to know who it is? Because my dad heard this noise in his bedroom when him and my mum were asleep, this noise was going " arrr,ahhhh" my dad jumped out of bed... then the noise went.
2 weeks later my 2nd aunt( my dads aunt) went to a spiritulist and the spirtulist said to my aunt have you got a nephew callled del( which is my dads name), the spirtualist said that a member of our family was in the bedroom that night...
Also the member of our family had throat cancer andhe used to go "arrr,ahhhh" to communicate...
Can anybody help me out here? Xx

What exactly do you want help with? You guys seem to be pretty sure who it is.

This subject has been my hobby of sorts since college. If your looking to do some chasing on this yourselves try some EVP sessions. My friend Mike from Viper paranormal describes the basic how to on this video.

EVP 101 Recording, Tips, Tricks, Electronic Voice Phenomenon! - YouTube

Kaitlin, do you actually have concerns... or just want a better idea of what is going on?